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I joined my current company towards the end of last year on the premise that I'd be site-based on a 2/1 roster. However between delays from the client, wet weather and a few other minor issues, I have only really spent a total of 5 swings onsite since the end of October.
In similar situations with my previous company, my roster would never change. If site was flooded and there was no point of me being there, they'd just say to work from home or the office on my usual roster until things went back to normal.
With my current company though... The moment I'm not going to site, I'm straight back to M-F in the office with little to no warning. It's a royal pain in the ass when trying to organise anything, and I'm finding the sudden roster changes are constantly eating into my annual leave when I have stuff planned. A couple of examples:

1. I was off from 23/12 - 03/01. Based on my roster and public holidays, I was originally only going to have to take 2 days of annual leave. Site got rained out on 16/12, and suddenly I'm back to M-F, and had to use up 7 days of leave instead.
2. I had a week's holiday with the fam in Feb, all of which was supposed to be covered by my week off. The client threw a couple of delays at us and suddenly I'm back to M-F, and the boss is asking for my annual leave form for the week. There goes another 5 days.

There are several other times where I've had my plans uprooted, such as trying to move houses, plans to visit the parents, birthdays being missed, etc, but the abovementioned two are the ones that piss me off the most being that they've essentially eaten through all of my annual leave.
As a whole, I'm just getting to that stage now where I'm sick of being screwed around by the constant roster changes, and I'm at the point where I don't think I'm going to make it through the next 12-18 months on the project. Is this kind of behaviour common with FIFO and DIDO roles or am I just stuck with a shitty company?

hello, i bought my first gaming about a month ago, been absolutely loving playing mw2/warzone on it, everything was fine up until about a week/week and a half ago when i noticed my ping slightly jumping to 100+ then back down, this has got a lot frequent now and the game is pretty much unplayable for me as its spiking every 3/4 seconds and as you can imagine its driving me mad, my pc has the Wi-Fi adapter built in, internet speeds are absolutely fine. This has all happened within the last week, ive reset my router a number of times, we have 2 sky boosters on the go as we speak, and a ethernet from the booster to my pc and it is still the same. i am not able to have a ethernet from the router to my pc as i live in a 3 storey house my router is on the bottom floor and my bedroom is on the top but as previously mentioned it was fine until a week/week and a half ago. If someone would please help me as its driving me round the bend and i have run out of ideas. Thank you :)

Ps : On mobile, posted in a rush.
I'm currently in high school, and all i have to say is that ; it's hell.
Ever since we've been back to face to face classes, it's never been the same. All my classmates are so mean and fake.
I'll tell you a few experiences I've had/know about them because it getting too unbearable :
First off ; There's this girl that I've known since kindergarten, but only befriended her around the 1st grade. She used to be kind, funny and caring. Nowadays, it's like she's entirely different, she usually talks to me first but then acts like i was the one who initiated it.
She's dumping everything negative about me to multiple people in our class, and even outside it. She exaggerates the story so much, it's like I'm not myself anymore.
"Yep, it hit me really hard when i found out how fucked up (my name) was" then she proceeds to not elaborate. Then a few weeks ago she says she's "Okay" with me now through a friend, I know she'll only befriend me to talk badly about me behind my back. I don't know what i did wrong, I wasn't the best friend someone could have ; but i do try my best. I, gave them space, attention, time, gifts, whatever. It still wasn't enough i suppose.
I do think I'm not likeable enough as a person, not likeable enough to befriend immediately. Just to keep around until the time is right.
A friend showed me screenshots about things she'd say about me so here's a general list of everything ;

1. I'm literally the worst, no one could compare.
2. I'm too sensitive/insensitive.
3. I'm replaceable.

That's all the ones he showed me, but they're generally the same.
This is all I'll say for the 1st person, because there's still alot - please do bear with it, though.
2nd person is someone i used to be close with, we "rekindled" – but in, actuality she talks behind my back.
a few weeks ago she said she gets "sick" every months or so, and its why we can't hangout. But earlier i overheard her talk about to the 1st girl ; If i remember correctly, the conversation went like this :
"Hey 1st girl, I'm free later since my Mom isn't home. can we hangout later? "
Then later in the afternoon she said we couldn't hangout because she's sick and such. I let it go, i understand.
I thought i could trust her, especially since she says she's glad I'm back in her life before she goes. But now, I'm unsure of what to feel towards her, it feels so wrong, it feels sickening.
The rest of the people are all generally 1 in the same, so I'll mix them all up. Apologies if this gets confusing ;
Most of the girls use me for money — Whenever we hangout, sometimes they invite me somewhere. Then when we get there they suddenly say 'I don't have money' and then ask if i could buy them something, Even if i told them things such as 'I don't have any' or 'I don't have enough' they push anyway. Then they start calling me a "Rich auntie" - speaking of which, Everyone calls me a rich auntie. Anyone outside of my class who hears about it think it's sickening, i do too. I don't understand why you'd use someone like that. Though, I've known for a long time. I just didn't want to do anything about it, not until they started bragging..
A few days ago they went to the park, A dude came up to them and they started bragging about me apparently, and how 'if you just ask her, she'd spend her money'
It's gotten so bad, I've started not bringing my wallet anymore so when they look through my bag, there's nothing. I haven't been able to save anymore, it doesn't help that all my "friends" hangout almost everyday, even when they have no money.
Speaking of which, I got into a fight with a classmate. I simply asked what they did and such when they hungout because i didn't come, He got defensive then said i was a rich kid. i fought back and the arguments got repetitive, so i kicked him. He started arguing with me in another group chat, and later on Called me childish and how immature i am for continuing the fight. He said "Your thoughts are always full of money, i suggested a food place so we could just have fun because hangouts don't always mean you have to waste your money!" even though i repeatedly told him the same things such as "I was only asking why you offered to go there" and "We could've gone elsewhere so we didn't lose any money" — Then the argument ended because someone wanted to hangout and he let it go. I mentioned how i was losing money because of people using me, and that just because i get ___ a day, doesn't mean I'm "rich" - then he says "you're such a wasteful child." Then i blocked him everywhere.
Later on, This girl who watched the argument go down ; kept forcing us to get along again. she kept saying "you're my, only friends, yet you still fight" fuck, she even added him twice in the gc i kicked him from after i repeatedly told her 'No.' she only stopped when i told her once again that 'If you do this again, I'll kick you out too' Then she acted all upset when I told her it didn't concern you.
2 hours later, The dude apologizes on Snapchat and says "Sorry i thought with my emotions instead of my brain, i hope we could stay friends. you're fun to be around" then he screenshots the apology. (Snapchat tells you)
All this happened on Friday last week, and even more things happened. We didn't have proper classes and they were all being so loud, my head was hurting. The president (1st girl) didn't help either. In fact she encouraged them to get louder, she didn't do anything.
And in the afternoon we had a screening for Journalism, Me and a few other girls who were using me joined. During the captioning phase, they kept asking me things while i thought of my caption, they even took pictures instead of focusing. I ended up giving 3 of the 5 girls captions. And they even asked me for a pen and paper to use, they brought nothing. One of them even wanted me to transfer pictures to her so she could pass them instead.
Speaking of journalism, this other girl joined us. And this girl is so bad. I'll make a list for you : 1. She cheated multiple times, got caught once but still keeps cheating. 2. Already has a boyfriend, calls him hubby 3.Has that 2020 wattpad phase humor going on 4. Glorifies Eating disorders and suicide. 5. One time me and a few other friends went to her house, there was a guy also there. she came back wearing boxers (which was like underwear) and a thin tank top. She wasn't even wearing a bra underneath. 6. Very clingy 7. has the worst grammar 8. Condescending
Overall, literally everyone in our class despises her. Her friends talk badly of her too.
It didn't help when she cried to her mom about bullying (She didn't get a line in our performance because she didn't attend any practice.)

I am still in the process of watching the movie and will update when finished. Please add any of your thoughts and feelings on the movie.

Hi! I’m a new grad student and I will begin at Western in September. I’m looking for housing close to campus and am considering The W in Sherwood Forest Square. Could I please get reviews about the place? Is it a good accommodation, how safe is the area etc. Thanks!

not sure if this is the right sub for this but i couldn’t find one for fathers specifically.
anyways my 23f father 50m is a complete slob when he stays at my house. i live in a 1/1 with my dog & he comes over to stay for the weekend s every once in a while.
however, when he does stay with me he leaves the toilet seat up & pee droplets all over the bathroom. doesn’t do his dishes, like purposely will make coffee in the morning & leave it there till i get up. doesn’t even wash the fork he eats with. leaves coffee ground all over the kitchen.
now i’m not saying i expect him to clean when he hear because this is my home & he’s my guest. but i don’t know how to tell him that it bothers me that he’s like that. oh i should also point out i accidentally left my vibrator out in the shower one time & he pointed it out by saying “i found a duck in the shower” instead of just simply ignoring it. i would’ve put it away the next time i went to the bathroom.
i am very OCD & slightly on the autism spectrum so he knows how i am.
can anyone help?

Was just thinking about different things that’d be dope to add to MyTeam and a couple things that I thought of were:
Trading Block: an auction house for un auction able cards where people can trade un auction able cards with each other so they at least have some value other than collector value. Plus if you get a higher overall card you don’t want but can’t sell someone will more than likely want them.
Unlimited co-op: Probably will never happen, but like tto co-op but full length games like rec/pro-am in my career. I’ve gotten some of my homies to play MyTeam off of co-op and selling them on “each card really just a different build without grinding it”. An they like the mode. Feel like if MyTeam did something like that the mode would get even more attention.
Mercy rule for online: Growing up way we always played 2k and really any sports game was the “21” rule. If someone up 21, other person gets a chance to get a bucket if not the games done. This would save time for both people that prefer online as it would incentive people to not quit regardless as the game wouldn’t have to go the full length if it’s not close. Also offline players would be able to do online challenges at a faster and higher rate while both players get rewarded for playing regardless of how little or small. Achievements still met and wins still counted.
What y’all think ?

Hi folks! Got my SBI cashback card approved last week and it will be delivered by Monday. Have few questions for this -

1. Utility payments - have gone through some threads and found that buying amazon GVs solves this.
2. NPS - it gives 1% cashback, any way to get more? Does it count in milestone for 2 lacs?
3. Rent payment - Any platform where the net is not negative?

Any other suggestions are also welcome.
I already have SimplyClick, will try to get that converted to LTF.

I really want to get the most out of my first proper morrowind playthrough. Thus I'm really looking for a character that can easily progress in all factions. For this I'm thinking about taking long blade, light armor and some magick skills as my main skills. Followed by acrobatics, athletics and some more magick skills as my secondary skills. Any idea if this can give a satisfying first playthrough while being able to progress in all the factions (thinking house telvani + all the other guilds/factions). And if not what I could change to achieve this goal.

I was desperate to have sex, I was always trying to get girls' attention on social media and tried dating apps but I was always getting rejected. I'm South Asian and Muslim living in a European country so I think it pushes girls away.
One day, one girl liked my profile and she was actually interested in talking and get to know me. She was pretty and sweet so I thought it could be my chance. She told me she never did casual dating and just wanted a serious relationship, she was very shy and innocent, unlike the rest of the girls I was interested. I was never interested in a serious relationship.
We started talking daily for hours and I met her for the first time. She was very quiet and shy in real life but very friendly and it seemed she was into me. After that day, I started love bombing her because I wanted her to fall in love with me and I'd have sex with her. She said I was moving too fast and it was too early for me fall for her that way but slowly she started to reciprocate, I also made pressure to make her say "I love you."
I lied that I told about her to my mom and she was the only one I was talking to. She really wanted to be exclusive, wanted me to meet her family and meet my parents. Of course, she would never meet my family, I wasn't in love with her like she thought I was but I know she liked me a lot. My parents would never allow me to marry outside my ethnicity. I had the sex talk and she got mad at me saying it's too early to talk about it and she got suspicious that I only wanted sex from her. I denied it but I got colder and distant because I didn't have strong feelings for her. I was still on dating apps seeing other girls while talking to her and saying I wanted to marry her in the future. I even talked about kids.
We started talking normally again, we always met in parks and restaurants but this time I rent an apartment for us, I said we were going to watch her favourite movie. I thought that maybe she would open up to me and we would have sex but we only did heavy petting and nothing more. I realized that it would never happen and she was always talking about how she wanted me to meet her mom and get approval.
I started talking less to her and leaving her on read for hours. Suddenly, some attractive girl with a bikini picture starts following me and liking my pictures, I followed her back. She sent me a link of an online shop asking me to follow it, we started talking, she was very interested on me but unlike the previous girl she was open to casual dating and didn't sound shy at all. I lied about my ethnicity and age to her so she would accept me better. She asked me if I was single, I said yes and she asked me if I dated someone before, I lied that no and that no girl showed interest on me before. Although I made the other girl believe I was her boyfriend and loyal to her, she was left on read for 5h while I was talking to this new girl.
She says she wants to meet me and asks me to send a picture of my face, she was going to send a picture of her too. I did it because I wanted to see her picture too, I open the picture and it was the middle finger of the girl I was talking for 2 months with her ring on it. It was her all the time with a fake account and she said "Got you" with laughing emojis. She called me a liar and blocked me.
Now, I'm feeling regretful because she was genuinely a good person, she always supported me in everything and she never minded that I was Asian and Muslim. We used to share a lot about our daily lives and I even showed pictures of my family. She gave me attention and love like no one ever did. I regret taking advantage of her kindness and now I'm missing her a lot but I think it's not worth it to reach out to her.

This post is inspired by a recent question (that got removed by mods lol) and the post linked below that detailed living with a solar installation for a month. So here, I would detail my own experience; Detailing the initial cost, how much money it makes a year, when I'd hit breakeven, and the potential return over it's lifetime. I'll try to be as detailed as possible, but if you have questions, I'll do my best to answer them.
https://www.reddit.com/phinvest/comments/r75erj/solar_panel_results_with_data/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

WARNING : My setup is DIY but this is my field and I am well aware of every aspect of this system. If you intend to put one up, PLEASE CONSULT A PROFESSIONAL. The energies you are dealing with here are well beyond the KILL YOU and BURN YOUR HOUSE DOWN territory.

I have a 5.4Kwp hybrid setup coupled with a 10Kwh lifepo4 battery. Initial CAPEX was about 262k. As stated in my warning. I designed the entire system myself and guided the laborers on how to install the entire thing. Took 4 guys a day to get the panels mounted on the roof and about 4 days working with the electrician to reroute my main panel and get everything wired up.

• Panels - 100k approx
• Hybrid Inverter - 58k
• 200AH 48V LifePo4 Battery - 72k
• Accessories (Cables, Connectors, Mounting, ATS, etc..) - 15k approx
• Labor - 12k approx
• Transpo - 5k approx

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• Based on the monitor app, my system has been up for 378 days (I wasn't living in the house the first few weeks) and produced 8.81MWH of electricity for a total value of approximately 97k. This is based on production and is inaccurate because it does not take into consideration losses and round trip efficiency. So to err on the safe side, let's assume that the value of the electricity generated is just 80k for this time period.
• So based on CAPEX(262k) and annual revenue (80k) I'd hit breakeven in 3.275years
• What's the potential return? Solar panels last for decades but degrade by about 0.5% per year. If nothing breaks over the course of 30 years, I will get a maximum return of 2.2M or 8.45x my initial CAPEX

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• Here's what a typical day looks like. I am not able to maximize solar generation as characterized by the generation clipping before 2pm to match the load.

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• Data over the past 30 days

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• I just wanted to share that there was a power interruption in our area that lasted for 6hrs. I found it amusing that I did not notice the power go out and only noticed it now going over the data. Notice that the AC output is maintained at 230V while the grid voltage drops to 0V. This means that my system does not backfeed into the grid. This is critical as you or your installer can be held liable by Meralco for any injury caused to their linemen if you backfeed.

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• My latest bill

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• Showing off my home assistant dashboard. Lol. Designed it so that the battery card background turns red when there's a power interruption. This is supposed to go on the wall, but I still need to make the mounting system for it.

Please direct me to a more suitable sub if needed.
TLDR: Want to start to plan renovation design based on what the bank is likely to allow me to borrow/equity use/refinance in 3 years. Is this possible?
When calculating borrowing power for a renovation, are you limited to only using your available equity, or can you use some useable equity, AND also increase your total loan amount from your original mortgage? I don't know if i'm making sense. Also, do banks ever take into account the prospective value, once renovations/extensions are complete, when calculating usable equity, or is equity only ever calculated on the actual house value as it stands on that given day?
If wanting to know how much I could spend (ie loan) for a renovation, say for in 3 years time, is there a way that can be calculated so that I can start planning designs, and maybe canvas building companies for availabilty? I don't want to have ideas in my head for what might suit our family best, then find out the bank won't have a bar of it, so I want a better idea of borrowing power ahead of time to plan accordingly, if that's even possible?

I had fun but something just felt off for me at an Anjunadeep curated event....there wasn't much Deep House which was what turned me on to Deep years ago.
Jody played something like Tech House and Marsh played Trance (which was fun and good but definitely a little more than I wanted at the time yea know?). Anyone else who went notice this year's event had a surprising lack of Deep House and "deeper' music in general?

29-year old male, if that matters. I think the pandemic and social isolation paired with ny recovery during a pandemic breakup (from an 8-year relationship) elevated my reclusive or hermit tendencies. I was already a loner before the pandemic but now that everything is back to normal, I'm finding it harder and harder to socialize and connect.
But here's the kicker, I actually enjoy solitude. Because that 1 year when I isolated myself from the world thanks to the quarantine was the most peaceful and most content phase in my life. The solitude was intoxicating for me, as insensitive as it sounds. I felt freedom for the first time in a decade.
Fast forward to today, my college friends whom I see about once every three years started inviting me again and I just couldn't stand their company anymore. Couldn't relate to them. Didn't help that they tried introducing me to their socialite and extroverted circle.
Now, I'm with my new girlfriend who proposed to me (she's my fiancee now) and at times I feel guilty because I find myself celebrating whenever I get the house to myself in the rare moments where she's out with her family or in concerts. We live together and I see myself liking it for the rest of my life, and she even likes my introversion. It's just that there are times when I think this level of isolationist tendencies is unhealthy even though I don't really feel lonely when I'm alone (I feel happier, in fact). At least I think it's unhealthy for my relationship with loved ones and relatives (in-laws to-be included), especially since they're the rowdy and social bunch and I also keep turning down their invitations because I already know how the conversations will flow.
Is there something wrong with me? I know that's a question for psychiatrists, but I live in a country with shitty mental health care so I'd rather not rely on professionals where I live.
TL; DR: I feel lonely when with company and happy when alone. So I generally avoid social obligations and gatherings. Should I change?

hi! i’m a first time dog owner and took my dog for a walk around the neighborhood today. we live in a suburban area so our walk consists of just passing houses till we end up at the park.
we went at 7AM on sunday. BUT
so many dogs were barking at us through the windows or dogs tied up in the yard. so sooo many. my dog is young and shy so they definitely freak her out a little but she doesn’t bark and she keeps walking.
my question is if we should walk somewhere else for the neighborhood’s sake. i feel bad for these owners with dogs literally screaming at my dog. but we need to walk. (usually I take her to a hiking trail, but we didn’t have the car today.)
is there some unspoken rule or something lol?

Hey people of reddit, I hope everyone has had a wonderful day/night! So I(21) am not really good at getting my thoughts on paper while still making sense, so please bear with me!
I have known my SO (20) since she was born, we were great childhood friends and did everything together whenever we could. Skip a few school years due to our parents moving to different sides of the city, while we stayed in touch as best as we could. We started to stop talking im guessing because "out of sight out of mind " but eventually our parents had a little get together decided to share a house and then moved in with us. It was great apart from my rapist sibling who sexually assaulted my SO from the age of 6 until she was 12, and myself from 5-10, we never spoke about what he was doing to us, we didn't know that we were both being assaulted. While that was happening my MIL was using my mother to look after her while she went off being an escort and doing drugs, and not even using that money to look after her child and somehow always being behind or skipping a month's rent (using my mum to pay more than her share). After a while my mum gave up and told her to move out, then my MIL decided to distance herself from us because my mum "abandoned her in a time of need" (lived together for over 1.6 years)
And again we stopped talking until I went to the same school as her(I moved nearby).
So when we finally realised that we had very strong feelings for each other, and decided to start seeing each other when we were 18 and 19, we decided since we already knew pretty much everything about each other's life (or so we thought) I decided to stay at her house (closer to my work) and help with her relationship with her mother as they were arguing and fighting a lot. Over the last 2 years things have gone from AMAZING to depression.
In my mind it is mainly because of her mum, when we started dating (MIL had way too many pets, we constantly stressed how bad this living situation is but she said 'at least cats don't stab you in the back!?' Like what the fuck?!) So her house always smells of shit and piss because she barely cleaned up after them and was embarrassed about it.. saying that it's never like this and she's going to get on top of it and keep it clean, well that lasted about 2 months until she gave up on cleaning and herself. MIL started drinking more and going back into party drugs slowly leaving more and more responsibility on us, and just when we thought things were getting better she "sheltered" fucking 3 pregnant stray cats when she already had 5 cats and other pets, to help with her motherly urge to protect and nurture things. In the long run her motivation to clean, look after kittens, and work was just too much for her and found comfort in a partner. Since finding this amazing person she has slowly left that motherly urge to protect, love and care for her daughter and pets to revert back into her highschooler self leaving us with all the responsibility and stress, no money, no help and no sympathy or empathy for us at all. Because as she lives ten blocks away from her own house (us) with her new partner she pretends that everything is fine and still has the nerve to pretend that nothing happened and invite us to dinner at his house because we can no longer use our kitchen because of the animals over running it.
So I believe that it is wired into her brain that she can do whatever she wants and if you don't like it, it's your fault and you have no right being mad at her cause her life was a lot worse. (She's gone through her own past traumas).
What's even worse is because of all this my partner is too anxious and depressed to get a job so we are trapped here until she starts to feel better, and also that her mum is the only family my SO has so my partner is really wanting to keep her friendship with her mum..(and that is completely understandable) but she has mentioned to her mum multiple times that we are not happy and really need help, but it never arrives so that's why I had a bit of a snap and wrote quite an emotional message for her.. and here it is....
Sorry for all the backstory let's hope this makes sense now. This was a message that I was very close to pressing send I just thought it might add some insight on how our life is going!😁
Hey _____
This is going to be shocking, arrogant and just straight up rude but i have had it, i am sick of playing pretend about our life being all happy and shit. I really dont know how to say it apart from this....
Just first these are my thoughts and a little of my partners she defends you to the ends of the earth but the truth is in my eyes you really do not deserve it.
How can a 40yr old woman treat her kid and myself like we are house maids for a irresponsible pet owner that has abandoned ship to go live with a great person so her life doesn't feel as shitty..
I dont want to say this but what makes you think that you can just give up on your responsibilities as a parent and animal owner leave us day in and day out to clean after stray animals you brought into the house on top of YOUR original pets (5) which is too many to begin with..
Making your daughter and myself either clean a whole house daily to avoid the smell of shit and piss(WHICH WE DONT HAVE ENOUGH MONEY OR WILLPOWER TO DO EVERYDAY!) And when we do clean it takes 12hours to get back to how it was or sit in the matchbox of a room and try to not to go crazy while listening to constant animal noises and the house falling apart
Just how do you stay there 10 blocks away doing coke and drinking alcohol like you are 18.. with no responsibility
NEWS FLASH YOUR DAUGHTER IS STILL YOUR RESPONSIBILITY SHE STILL NEEDS HELP MENTALLY, SHE NEEDS HELP PHYSICALLY SHE NEEDS A FUCKING MOTHER NOT SOMEONE THAT RUNS AWAY FROM HER PROBLEMS AND DOES DRUGS TO HIDE THE PAIN...
Instead of being a adult and fixing your problems you decided to shift them onto kids with no money and if this continues no fucking future
How do you expect us to be happy ____ please I really want to know what you have been telling yourself to help you sleep at night because if you thinks this is ok... YOU NEED FUCKING THERAPY AND A LOT OF IT
HOW CAN WE GROW AS ADULTS WHEN WE ARE EXPECTED TO LIVE IN YOUR FILTH AND "MESS" ALL DAY ?
How can we live and learn to love life if we are trapped in this fucking hell hole of house
Which I can say is doing absolute wonders for your daughters and my relationship
RECAP
FIX YOUR PROBLEMS INSTEAD OF WHATEVER IT IS YOU ARE DOING
HELP YOUR FUCKING DAUGHTER
HELP ME HELP YOUR DAUGHTER
HELP YOURSELF AND YOUR DAUGHTERS RELATIONSHIP BY ACTUALLY BEING THERE FOR HER INSTEAD OF COMING AROUND ONCE A FORTNIGHT - MONTH TO GIVE YOUR CATS FOOD
HELP ME UNDERSTAND WHATEVER THE FUCK YOU ARE THINKING TO PERSUADE YOURSELF EVERYTHING IS FINE
I really dont know why I posted this maybe so she sees this, maybe because I really need advice on how to keep our relationships because as you can hopefully tell by the "message" I am about to go ballistic and need another view on this😅

Hi all, I (30f) have come to a tough spot in my relationship. There's been a few occasions l've come over and my boyfriend (32m) is wasted, but then says he isn't and denies any drinking. It's happened a handful of times but there was always a "stressor" that day that I understood. Not an excuse but at least understandable. This happened Tuesday this week after something happened at work, and for the very first time he was rude to me. It happened again Friday night and I was upset because we had plans to go out with friends. Once I realized he was drunk, I grabbed my stuff and left to get ready at my house. He knew I was upset and we didn't talk a lot Saturday, except over text and I let him know how upset I was with his actions. I asked if he had an alcohol problem and he just laughed it off like I was crazy. Well I finally get around to talking in person, so I go over to his house and, guess what, he's drunk again. I'm pissed because he knew it upset me so much the night before. I decided to be nosey and find where he's been keeping the booze. I found SIX empty vodka handles in his closet. One had a few shots left that I poured out. I just don't know what to do.
This man is normally an amazing partner whom I love and planned on building a future together. I know if I had something going on he would stay by my side and help, but my trust feels betrayed now. We’ve been together almost 6 months and it’s been the best and healthiest relationship both of us have had.
On a side note, he had a friend die of alcoholism a few years ago and is still grieving it. I have a feeling his death is contributing to this. He's idolizing a dead man.

Hi everyone !
I bought an RAR years ago, and did not use it since at least 8 years (the closest shooting range to my house closed and I did not take the time to try again the hobby after years).
Now that I have a shooting range available near me, I would like to shoot again with it.
I used to shoot for competition with 22Lr pistols back then, and would like to use my RAR in a formal way so that I can use it in official competitions or at least train with it. 22lr pistols / rifles are designed way differently than typical pistols or rifles such as the RAR, thus I was wondering if there was a type of sport or official competition were such a rifle could compete. I am based in Europe, and there we have competitions with vanilla military weapons, but I am not sure the RAR would fit.
Do you have any idea of a recognized sport involving typical 22lr bolt action rifles, with or without a scope or bipod ?

Okay sure they are a couple that are kind of funny or cute. But not the ones that say no religion we bought God already know this know that but if you got girl scout cookies blah blah blah it's always one that mentions girl scout cookies at the end somewhere. Which don't get me started on girl scout cookies. That's another rant for another day
Very rarely do I see one that's not cringe or crappy or annoying or just trashy and tacky.
Here's the thing, I get why you put that sign up? You had these high hopes that letting people know you were not interested in any unsolicited offers that maybe they would leave you alone, but I'm going to tell you a secret, I did door to door sales when I was younger. And you know what my boss told me? Ignore those damn signs. Yep whether it was a business or home. Ignore those no soliciting signs. Just pretend you didn't even see it
So right off the bat, the very thing that you're hoping to avoid? You're not avoiding.
More than that it makes you look trashy. To have all of these signs up in front of your house talking about how you hate everybody that comes to your house but you keep inviting people there and that's the only reason they see those dang signs in the first place
Like seriously, you don't got to worry about me. I dropped my food off and leave. I'm really not there to think about you too much. But on a day like yesterday when I do 35 deliveries in a day? Yeah, I see enough of them where it starts to get to me a little bit I start wondering to myself, who do these people think they are? Why do they think they're so special? What kind of experiences have they really actually had with people soliciting in the first place?
You would think you would really see most of these in the hood somewhere. Where you know, maybe they're not protected by a gate that everyone in town has the code to? But no. People that have people that go by their house off and kind of understand they don't need to piss off everyone that walks by. They might let you know they have a gun inside but they're not really too interested in telling you not to knock on the door and say hello. It's the gated community people that do it. the people who shouldn't have people coming to their door in the first place isn't that why you paid so much extra to live in a gated community?
Look don't take this rant too seriously I don't really care that much but yeah I thought it should be said. The more crap on your no soliciting sign in front of your home? The trashier I think you are I'm sorry, I just don't understand why you feel the need to be cringy about anything the way that you are.
It really just lets you know how many people in this country are just trashy as hell. I mean super trashy
One of the worst orders I've ever done was a $10 order for about 9 mi. I thought that this was potentially a higher hidden tip because of the where it was. It wasn't too far from a gated community I had done in the past. It was a different one. With a redneck living there and almost every square inch of his house was covered with signs letting you know he didn't want you there. Or he had a gun to make sure that you didn't stay there long. Or that he had a dog in addition to his gun. Or that he voted for such and such. This is Arizona so you can guess
I'm not telling you that you can't have your sign. I'm not telling you that you're a bad person for having it. All I'm saying is that when I see it? I automatically assume you're a trashy hateful person. Very little will ever change my mind

Probably there's a whole number of reasons for why this can't happen... but I was just thinking, how cool it would be if you could have your other characters chilling around your houses when you are not playing as them...