Moon time today

Migrated vault contents and closed Lastpass account in late 2022. Received an email today, a full three months later, asking for feedback on a customer service rep. It's from a goto.com incoming and reply address, so the email seems legit, if poorly timed.
Anyone else get one of these?

It's my birthday and I've never felt more worthless. I just want to burst into tears and give up. No one cares, I've been suicidal for awhile and today it's just overwhelming. Almost feel like if no one remembers I was born today, maybe they'll remember if I died. I disgust myself with how much of a waste of space I am. I feel like I don't even deserve to waste people's time by asking to talk, but I just want someone to care about me

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You feel only slight discomfort as your mind begins to slip. Roll a d120 to find out how the insanity affects you.

Roll	Result
1	The affected person seems to think they have switched bodies with the first person they see every day.
2	A fear of growing older is instilled in them--and a desperation to never grow feeble. Impatience is formed as a result of the knowledge that with every passing second they are slowly dying, and as such they have a short fuse.
3	The affected has an unnatural obsession with black hair.
4	The afflicted believes they have extra, imaginary appendages, and they try to use whatever extra limb they believe they have, which obviously never works.
5	The afflicted becomes a mild pyromaniac. They have to make a CD 8 Wis check every time they see a fire. On a fail, they try to spread that fire once they are safe to do so.
6	The afflicted character can no longer remember anyone's actual name and refers to everyone by nicknames from now on.
7	The insane person suffers from extreme paranoia and treats ALL creatures as 'hostile.'
8	The person decides to create a massive loot hoard, not unlike ones in a red dragon den. Person will take any gold and valuables they see, by whatever means they see fit, and then take them to their home.
9	The affected is convinced that he/she is a vampire, and will seek out humanoid blood. Also takes 1d4 psychic damage per minute of sun exposure, and believes the image of him/herself in mirrors is an illusion.
10	The character reverses alignment every last day of the month. If they are in any way neutral, throw 1d4. Odd makes evil or chaotic, even makes them good or lawful.
11	The afflicted character verbalizes all of their internal thought processes unless they put a concerted effort into not doing so. While suppressing the verbalization of their thoughts, they have disadvantage on skill checks and saves, cannot cast Concentration spells, and speak in strained and broken sentences.
12	The affected person sincerely believes they can cast the Wish spell at will, and tries to cast it frequently.
13	The affected hears the constant sound of rolling dice.
14	The afflicted believes their body parts have separate personalities and spends most of their time trying to broker peace between them.
15	The afflicted grows to believe their skin is incredibly durable, and refuses to wear armor of any kind.
16	You find a pineapple (or any available fruit) named "Wilson" that speaks for you now.
17	Your character is convinced they are the Chosen One of the first prophecy they hear, and will seek to fulfill their destiny no matter how impossible.
18	The effected develops triskaidekaphobia, an irrational fear of the number 13.
19	The affected, when addressed by name, will paralyze themselves in fear until left completely alone.
20	The afflicted sees everything as being in a slightly different physical place than it actually is. It’s a tiny, almost insignificant different, but It is very noticeable when in direct conversation with them because they never make actual eye contact. They look the smallest bit away.
21	The afflicted grows an interest for poetry, and starts making their own, terrible poems.
22	You start spinning and humming "Twinkle-twinkle" for hours on end.
23	The afflicted is incredibly terrified of the dark because of the unspeakable creatures and horrific sounds that exist there, so they always carry some form of light and are likely to freak if it ever goes out.
24	The character partially loses the sense of hunger. Every 1d20 hours, they have to make a CD 8 Wis check. On a fail, they believe to be extremely hungry, and will do anything they can to get a meal.
25	The person grows extremely afraid of gravity. Even a tiny unevenness makes them pee their pants.
26	You will have an obsession with flipping a gold coin for every decision you make.
27	The character is suddenly attracted to their own image, even though they don't recognize it. They try to talk to themselves in the mirror, fully believing it's a different person, and the love of their life.
28	The afflicted knows, without a doubt, that they are the real, biological parent of someone else (ideally, a PC); and they want to make it up to their child for never having realized this before.
29	The afflicted thinks it's rude to drink or eat in public, and will hide from anyone else before they do one of these things.
30	The affected develops trypophobia.
31	The afflicted believes that their hands and feet have been replaced with spoons.
32	The afflicted person believes he suffers from spontaneous combustion, and whenever there's a talking bit, he has to roll whether he is fine, or spends the entire chat rolling on the floor and screaming.
33	The person believes they are a polymorphed metallic dragon, stuck in human form. They set out to fix their "curse".
34	Your character develops the paranoid delusion that a random party member is always watching them.
35	The afflicted believes to be in a dream, and is constantly trying to wake up. However, they are too afraid to try to commit suicide in order to wake.
36	After taking damage the afflicted behaves as though under the confusion spell the following round.
37	The afflicted is convinced that everyone else is flirting with them somehow, and they are apalled at how libido-driven everyone seems to be. Ironically, they become terrible at hitting on people.
38	The afflicted does not think they exist anymore and does not believe people can notice, perceive, or interact with them. When spoken to or observed, they don’t believe it—others must be interacting with something nearby. It’s just a coincidence! Physical touch of any type is ignored, and if physically moved or hurt, the afflicted believes they must be hallucinating or having a vivid dream.
39	The afflicted fears law enforcement as they believe that there is a manhunt underway to capture them and convict them of a crime they did not commit.
40	Character develops a compulsion for feeding any creature it sees, with whatever is at hand.
41	The afflicted believes that they know someone of great importance (ideally, someone the PCs are needing to meet/encounteetc.), but they cannot ever lead anyone to this person. They are happy to speak about them, provide insights about this person, and even regale others of stories that involved the two together. However, they can never disclose the physical location of the person or lead others to the person because if they do, they believe they will break their end of some bargain and something terrible will occur.
42	The afflicted character becomes dangerously gullible. Every time they are told a lie roll a d20. On a natural 1 they believe the lie to the point where it is impossible to convince them it is not true.
43	The afflicted character is convinced that they have a beautiful singing voice and often will break into song, much to the chagrin of those around them.
44	The effected hears the voice of their grandmother (or similar familial character) occasionally telling them to kill people.
45	The PC can see and hear other NPC(s) interacting with them sometimes, only they are actually hallucinations. The PC is unaware that they are hallucinations to start out, but may learn that later.
46	The afflicted is plagued by night terrors that comprise of all the ways the afflicted might die that next day. Paranoid to the point of hysteria, they do everything with incredible fear and caution, often mumbling about the many ways whatever they're doing might kill them.
47	The afflicted suddenly "remembers" they are a double agent, meant to strike down whoever the party is working for, and their party members are part of the scheme, just don't remember it.
48	The afflicted becomes overly critical against the party members, and mocks and insults them even for the slightest mistake.
49	The afflicted thinks that party members are close relatives (father, mother, brother etc.)
50	The afflicted has developed a pitiful version of photographic/eidetic memory where they only clearly remember things when in near-death situations, so they actively seek lethal or painful experiences in order to use their incredible recollection abilities.
51	The effected suddenly overcomes an addiction or other character flaw, then suffers a violent outburst 1d4 days later.
52	When you sleep, you dream of a lake of fire. It's the same dream every night. You know it exists somewhere in the world. When you wake, you can feel it pulling you, calling to you. You do everything in your power to travel to this lake. DM decides how far away it is. You know it's the right lake when you get there. Once you arrive, you find it to be very much so not on fire. Take 3d10 psychic damage as you struggle to reconcile this, and the madness ends.
53	Whenever you meet a new character, roll 1d8: 01: You see everything they do in a negative light; 2: You feel compelled to steal from this person, regardless ofthe circumstances. This effect then transfers to them, and they feel compelled to steal from you. It will not transfer again after this; 3: You see the character as being extremely ugly. Make a WIS save. On a failed save, you have disadvantage on all rolls related to anything other than that character, as you're too focused on them; 4:You feel extremely apathetic towards them. You don't care about anything that happens to them, or what they do; 5: You feel compelled to protect the character at all costs, through whatever means you feel will be most effective; 6: you find the character extremely attractive, regardless of their appearance or your sexuality; 7: The character is now your new "best friend". You cannot help but find similarities between the two of you, and you care a great deal about them as a person, as well as their opinion of you. Any compliments or gifts you receive from them are elating, and any insults they give deal 2d4 emotional damage, which heals over 1d6 hours; 8: You feel no special way towards this character.
54	Afflicted develops an uncontrollable fear of water, including ice and bottled water. He may even let himself die of thirst.
55	The effected doesn't feel safe alone, and will panic unless accompanied by another character.
56	The afflicted character believes the next stranger they meet to be a blood relative of theirs. Roll a d20 to see how close of a relative, 20 being an identical twin.
57	The effected develops a pathological hate of ducks.
58	Your character is convinced they are a Lycanthrope, and will seek out a cure. On a full moon, they will shed their clothes and try to bite people. If your character IS a Lycanthrope, they believe they aren't.
59	Character becomes extremely sadistic. Deaths elicit the most laughter - the gorier, the more happiness is achieved.
60	The afflicted finds everything to be absolutely delicious.
61	The afflicted fears catching bad luck. They believe bad luck is contageous through touch and avoid touching others.
62	The afflicted has realized that fate rules everything and nothing is not predestined. They are incredibly melancholic and fatalistic, and they must be driven and prodded into action to do anything other than sigh and accept their fate.
63	The character believes they have an angel on one shoulder, and a demon on the other. Both of which represent a side of their consciousness, and gives their respective advices. The character doesn't know which is which.
64	The person believes to be aging backwards, and getting progressively younger, They mistake signs of senescence for signs of youth.
65	The effected suffers from autocannabalism, and finds the taste of their own flesh more delicious than anything else.
66	Your character will occasionally 'speak to camera', do voiceover narration for events currently occurring, and sometimes speak their thoughts aloud, exactly as though they are a character on a TV show... they believe the Gods are watching their adventures for entertainment.
67	The afflicted has a dream, in which they see their own death, in a rather specific way. The DM decides what the dream is like, so it is exactly like a situation the party will go through. The afflicted then recognizes the scene, and panics.
68	The effected develops a drinking problem.
69	The afflicted starts thinking selfness is the only way to get home alive, and will always choose what is better for him and not for the whole party. He will always refuse to share things.
70	The afflicted is convinced they hold multiple personalities in their psyche, except all the personalities act exactly the same in every respect and the only difference is that each personalities' name differs by one letter.
71	You start with nightmares of charnel hounds catching you and tearing at your flesh. Upon waking you can still hear them growling and breathing behind you. The symptoms become so severe that you hallucinate being attacked by the hounds and can feel pain (1d6 psychic damage) when they bite.
72	The afflicted start going irrational, talking about his past and commenting everything in weird ways, using terms like madness, darkness, void, etc.
73	The afflicted's sense of time is confused. They speak of the past as if it's in the future and has yet to happen. They speak of the future in past tense. And they have very little grasp of the present moment.
74	The afflicted thinks its power became overwhelming, and hardly ever attacks out of fear of breaking the world.
75	The afflicted believes that all bakers are part of a secret society of assassins. They purchase baked goods at every opportunity to make sure they are in good standing with this dangerous group.
76	The person feels like someone is watching them constantly and cause him/her to shoot out random things in any random direction
77	The afflicted thinks every other creature is more powerful than it, and treats them with either respect or fear.
78	The afflicted finds the most inconvenient things to be absolutely hilarious, bursting into cacophonic laughter at the worst times.
79	Character starts worshipping a deity referred to simply as "The Game Master", who supposedly controls everything about the world, except for the party.
80	The afflicted believes that they have an evil twin somewhere in the world who is plotting their demise. They are suspicious of anyone who looks even remotely similar to themselves.
81	The affected believes that they can talk to their weapon. If the affected does not have a weapon, then they believe themselves to be able to communicate with another party members weapon.
82	The person believes they are getting older way faster than others, and that their physical capacities are decreasing as well.
83	The character develops narcolepsy. Every 1d20 hours, roll a 1d8. If the result is 3 or lower, the character falls asleep for 1 hour, and sleepwalks 1d4 x 20 feet in a random direction at any moment during that hour.
84	Your character begins to feel that their self worth is elevated, almost in a euphoric state as their false confidence causes them to be too confident in their abilities.
85	The person is convinced that the end is near, and there's nothing they can do to stop it. So, they decide to live the rest of their days as hedonistically as possible.
86	The afflicted fears that lying in any way spells their end and have become genuine and honest to a fault. They say whatever is on their mind, though with obvious terror, shame, or hesitation.
87	The maddened individual will feel compelled to spout nonsense in the middle of their sentences.
88	Afflicted character's psyche shatters and dissolves as the character starts losing body functions. Roll 1d20 for each of these conditions: Memory loss; Loss of sight; Loss of taste; Loss of touch sense; Loss of hearing; Speech loss; Motor problems; Schizophrenia. The rolls count as a CD10 Constitution check. In case of a fail, roll 1d8 (or any appropriate dice) to determine how many weeks that effect lasts.
89	The afflicted has memory issues. Whenever he needs to remember something, roll a d4. If the result is a 1, the person forgets everything about it.
90	The afflicted is completely convinced that they have been made god over something incredibly small, specific, and pointless, and they make sure everyone knows about their newfound divinity.
91	The afflicted believes they are infallible. They refuse to believe that they are wrong, instead coming with increasingly improbably explanations as to why they were actually correct.
92	The affected pc adopts the personality of another character, and fully believes that they are that character. Lasts until cured, or the effect wears off.
93	The character now only talks in third person.
94	They must save everyone! When asked "from what", the response is "from evil!" before trying to murder everyone.
95	The afflicted is bipolar. Every 1d20 hours, roll 1d10. If the result is even, the person acts overly friendly. If it's odd, the person tends to be aggressive.
96	The afflicted is convinced they know a lot about subjects they only know a little of, and makes a lot of assumptions to fill their knowledge's holes.
97	The victim, in their madness, cannot comprehend words unless spoken completely backwards.
98	The afflicted has seen the errors of popular belief and have decided to be as counter to the norm as possible. They might refer to everything in opposite terms (like saying “down” for “up), wear clothes backwards or upside-down, or in extreme cases, even do the exact opposite of what they think others desire of them.
99	The effected believes everything to be a conspiracy- this town is run by dopplegängers, the king is a dragon in disguise, the Gods aren't real, etc.
100	The afflicted character believes they can beat anyone in a footrace.
101	The inflicted player is convinced their lives and everything in their world is controlled by giant gods that surround them at all times. The PC will occasionally hear giant boulder size rocks roll somewhere, before something happens
102	The afflicted has made a startling realization: everyday is a different holiday! And they mean to celebrate the holiday with the most passion and fervor ever seen.
103	The character thinks they suddenly changed gender.
104	You believe every full moon you turn into a were-rabbit that craves cheese.
105	The afflicted never lets one of their senses function properly because they falsely believe that they are better without that sense. Their self-imposed handicap has become their good luck charm and security blanket, although it actually makes them worse, so they fight tooth-and-nail to never use whatever sense they have shunned.
106	The afflicted obsessively takes up the ambition of being a writer, and they neurotically write everything down for some ambiguous chronicle that they are always working on.
107	The affected becomes addicted to the first smell that reaches their nose. If they are not able to smell it every 12 hours, they become violent.
108	Character develops "Object is God" disorder: first stage, they hear voices. As they tear about, one voice comes through more strongly than the rest, from a certain direction. Whatever the direction, they wander, until a doll or stuff item is found. The voice they've been hearing, "attaches" itself to the item, and "speaks" through it. The item then MUST be obtained. Finally, any choice the inflicted makes must be made through the toy.
109	You now believe you are the physical incarnate of the deity you have devoted your life to. Alternatively for classes not devoted to a deity, you now believe you are a deity worthy of devotion, gain the ability to cast prestidigitation (poorly) to prove your divinity to those foolish enough to question your power!
110	You realize you are in a game, and everything that makes you the person you are is just a collection of numbers and a few sentences on a sheet of paper.
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I recently got to spend an overnight with my AP and my body and mind are still adjusting to the come-down. Compared to waking up next to him, today just feels like opening my eyes to a flat, grey, colorless world. I’m longing to roll over and find him here, again, all warm and drowsy and sandpaper cheeked and smelling like sleep and last night’s cum and his own sweet body scent. I want to press up against him and I want nice slow morning sex and then I want to make him coffee and listen to him pee and brush his teeth and just luxuriate in all the little sights and sounds of his presence. I want him SO BAD.
This morning I stayed in bed a little longer than usual, masturbating and feeling a little sad and yearning with my whole body for the next time. The first morning alone after seeing him is always the toughest part of affair life for me. Once I get a couple days’ distance, it’ll feel better, but right now… ooooof.

Throughout the almost 2 years that I (18f) have been with my bf (18m), I’ve noticed that he isn’t very nice to his dad and it’s bothering me more than I expected it to. It’s difficult to explain but during almost every interaction I’ve observed between them he acts just very cold and rude. He won’t really say thank you, and mainly just has a very aggressive/agitated tone with him all the time as if his presence bothers him.
Although we come from different cultures (I am Hispanic and he is Asian) I don’t think of this as a cultural difference because he acts like this with no one else in his family except his dad. I’ve brought this up to him on multiple occasions because I love my boyfriend completely but the way he treats his dad is very off putting for me.
For example today I stayed over his house, and my washing machine is broken so he told me to bring a bag of laundry and he’d wash it for me. As he was putting the clothes to wash I over heard his dad telling him something and him quickly becoming annoyed and just giving him attitude and raising his voice. When I asked what had happened he said his dad woke up out of his sleep to try and help him with the clothes and was telling him to set the temp to cold which bothered him because he had set it to warm. I told him his dad was right because all the clothes were colors and I was taught colors go in cold. For whatever reason this small act his dad was trying to do set him off and even started an argument between us because I felt bad for the treatment his dad is constantly receiving. He claims his dad was talking to him like he was stupid but it sounded like his dad was just trying to be helpful.
As far as he told me his dad has never abused or neglected him growing up so I feel like there is no justification to how he treats him. I think of his dad as a nice man and he’s always very polite to me but obviously him and his son’s dynamic is different. His parents are also split up and he lives with his dad but never speaks to his mom like that.
If this is something that is stupid to care about feel free to tell me because even I don’t understand why it bothers me as much as it does.

https://imgur.com/a/qDzti89 We’ve lived in the building for almost ten years. During this time my kid has gone from bicycle riding to roller blading to now riding skateboards. I’m always outside with him, it’s never more than an hour at a time during the day time. Now that he’s older he only goes outside once in a blue moon but there are tons of families with kids that do these activities on the daily. If I’m being honest, the apartment managers child is the loudest one out of everyone. Although this doesn’t affect me as much as it does other families, I’m still annoyed my building has decided to put this up. My father in law has a lawyer on retainer and I’m wondering if this is worth bringing up to him to see if this is all the way legal on behalf of all the families living here.

hey guys, new to the sub + also new to the world of medication haha. i’m 18 years old and on 50mg sertraline, started it today after being diagnosed w severe depression + moderate/severe anxiety.
i’m still in college/6th form completing my alevels. some mornings i have to get up at 5am with trains n whatever, others are a later start at 1:10. i’ve decided to take my meds at 6:30am, is that too early ? i don’t want it to fuck up my day lol. if not i’ll just bring them to college w me later on and take them at 8am :)
also- some side effects i’ve felt so far. big loss on appetite, but thirsty as fuck. nonstop drinking water. my mum told me to avoid caffeine, is that true ? like i said some days are a 5am start, usually have an energy drink once i get to college. just helps me with the mornings init.
i’ve also been drifting in & out of being totally conscious- sometimes conversations are easy, others i just forget what’s going on and drift off into my own world. it got better throughout the day, but still keeps happening.
when i first took them this morning after 30mins i could barely open my eyes for about an hour- that normal too ?? it felt really fucking weird, kinda like being stoned but fucking exhausted at the same time.
finally- had some stomach pains after 2 hours. not sure if it’s unrelated cos i’m quite ill atm (there’s a nasty cold going around my friendship group) so it could just be that. just found it weird that my stomach was completely burning lol.
thank u guys sm, hope this isn’t too long to read haha

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The first FIS Nordic World Ski Championships were held in 1925, in the town of Janské Lázně, Czechoslovakia. The competitions included events in cross-country skiing and ski jumping, with athletes from Norway, Sweden, Finland, and Czechoslovakia competing. The championships were a success, and they continued to grow in popularity over the years.
In the early years of the championships, Nordic countries dominated the podium, with Norway, Sweden, and Finland taking most of the medals. But over time, other countries began to field strong teams as well, and the competition became more international in nature.
Throughout its history, the FIS Nordic World Ski Championships have been held in a variety of locations, from small mountain towns to major cities. The championships have also evolved to include new events, such as the Nordic combined, which was added in 1925, and the team sprint, which was added in 2005.
Today, the FIS Nordic World Ski Championships are one of the premier events in winter sports, with athletes from around the world competing for the chance to be crowned world champion. The championships continue to showcase the very best of Nordic skiing, and they remain a beloved tradition for fans of the sport.
As we look ahead to the next FIS Nordic World Ski Championships, we can reflect on the long and impressive history of this event. From its humble beginnings to its status as a global phenomenon, the championships have always been a celebration of skiing excellence and athleticism.
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I'll try and keep this as vague as possible.
I work in a very small organisation in a very niche area. It's not for profit, and isn't hierarchical in the sense there are like 3 senior people. In theory everyone else is on the same level. What generally happens is an external hire starts in customer service and moves on. You become reliant on the person who did that role before you for advice and checks and balances etc. It's like family in the sense that there are tensions between people but they never get addressed.
Worked from home full time during covid, and the last 3 years have been full of upheaval in mine and my partner's personal lives, massive bereavement etc. We are now living 2hrs away from my office by train, my partner is inherited. Moving would not make financial sense.
I got moved on from customer service to a far less defined role that seems to be in one sense a step up but in another sense has turned into a general dogsbody. Today, I almost accidentally renewed a contract with a vendor that should have been cancelled weeks ago (by somebody else) because I was told "oh send an email to this company" as the printer in my office was broken. And had been broken for weeks.
I was told to start coming up twice a week (I had been going up once a week) and honestly I'm useless. So tired, making stupid mistakes, I can't concentrate because the new customer service person won't stop talking to me or themselves, they narrate their emails, they ask my advice and then ignore it, then repeat the same scenario to me again and I give the same advice and then they might take it. I feel like I'm doing boring pointless busy work and a few roles back in a different company was managed out by being given no work and it like honestly broke something in my brain that has never come back. I really struggle with procrastination if a task doesnt feel urgent. I'm brilliant under pressure. But there's no pressure in my new role.
Today also I made two stupid mistakes in a draft I sent to my manager (who technically isn't my manager but the person who did customer service before me). This prompted a full lecture on how I should be more careful and they need to be able to trust me to circulate accurate info widely. The only excuse I have for this is I'm tired, honestly.
The pay is good and I've got a pension. I have to stay at least for this year, we're getting married and I can't deal with a job search on top of everything right now.
I don't know what I'm looking for. Maybe reassurance that the travel will get easier?

We are together for 2 years, about 1,5 of it living together. During these years I barely worked, had been struggling to find decent job, he never complained, always supported me even told me I don't really have to work, he took care od us both financially. We had a lot of conflicts around sex, usually I was horny a lot more times and he was not into it. We discussed it all and decided that I have a lot of sexual energy due to a fact I don't go to work. Now I have found good paying job with stable Mon-Friday schedule I work 9 hours a day and I still have a lot of sexual energy even after cooking dinner and doing housework after coming home from work. I want to have sex at least 2-3 times a week, he is okay with once a week and it drives me nuts. He chooses to watch basketball or go roller skating instead of having sex with me. I had to masturbate today in the morning before work when he was gone because I couldn't hold it anymore. Is it fixable? Or it's just different libidos that have no future? Any advice? He says he just doesn't want it and usually is tired.

Hello!
My pup is adjusting better and better each day to the home. There's been a few bumps (first a UTI, now she's coughing... vet appointment later today), but other than that she's wonderful. I want to ask anyone for help regarding leaving a puppy outside by itself. She's gotten to the point where she no longer freaks out if we don't go out with her, but now she just sits and waits for us (upwards of fifteen minutes, then she goes haywire on our screen door) to come back out/let her in. I'm not worried about how long we can leave her alone out there per se, but rather what we can do to encourage her to play independently/be confident in being left alone. She has plenty of toys, and once or twice a day I make a small snuffle mat to encourage correlating outside with a reward. She also always goes potty outside too. I've noticed that if it's the afternoon after her 09:00-11:30 nap/crate time, she's more than willing to be outside for an hour or so unprovoked or unbothered (we usually play with her during this hour anyway). Then we have her nap from 1:00pm to about no longer than 4:00pm, which she naturally has been doing on her own. Then she's out of the crate from 4:00pm til bedtime, which is like 9:30pm. She's free to nap throughout the evening, and will go to the back door when she wants to be let out (we let her out EVERY time).
Thoughts?
TLDR; 13 week old puppy sits and waits at back door until she gets tired of waiting and then tears up the screen. Has like seven toys in the back yard, all of which she uses. How can we encourage her to not just sit and wait by the door, and introduce her to independent play/yard time?
I'm aware she's young and it'll always take time, that I'm not worried about. I just wanna make sure we're giving her the correct support as pet parents so she feels like outside is okay to let loose in. Like I said, she lets loose in the afternoon/evening when we leave the back door open for her to come and go, and we've been able to close it from time to time for up to an hour. I'm just stumped.

I'm dealing with so much shame today, it's unbearable.
I work full time and go to school part time. I started this schedule late last year and I have failed 5 out of 6 classes since then. Obviously something isn't working, so I'm deciding to go part time at work. This isn't being taken well by my (very toxic) coworkers since we're already understaffed.
I'm on medication, I'm in therapy, I have a good support system, etc, but I just don't have any energy after my work week. It takes me so long to recover. My coworkers are suggesting that I start journaling and planning my time better. Nothing I say about being mentally ill and why that wouldn't help seems to get through to them. It doesn't help that my coworkers are also in school with this same schedule and they get all A's.
I'm so overwhelmed with shame. I have to talk to my manager about it today and I'm worried I'll break down crying.
Have you guys dealt with this? I need to know that I'm not the only one in the world that can't handle this schedule.

What do you do when your TLs and Coaches tell you that you cant take a lunch until you're caught up? Last time this happened i had to work 9 hours straight with no lunch etc and threatened to get wrote up if I didn't put a lunch in regardless. I heard we're very overdue today, and I've been told they're witholding lunches.

Formula 1 CEO Stefano Domenicali says interest in hosting races is so high the series could hold 32 grands prix.
A job advert posted by F1 last year indicated the series is looking at a potential future expansion to 25 rounds. Speaking at the SportNXT conference in Melbourne this week, Domenicali indicated the series would be able to accommodate more than the current maximum.
“We could have already today more than 30, even 32 grands prix, because everyone wants one,” Domenicali claimed. However he said the series is satisfied with the current limit of 24 rounds.
Part of the calendar expansion has come about because F1 has added a third race in America this year. A new race on the Las Vegas Strip Circuit will join the Miami Grand Prix, which was introduced last year, and the United States Grand Prix in Texas which has been part of the calendar since 2012. Domenicali pointed out this was a rapid development given that “around three years ago we were considering if we were even going to stay in the US.”
The sport has enjoyed rapid growth in America, thanks in part to the success of Liberty Media initiatives such as the Drive to Survive Netflix series. This has brought a new generation of viewers to the sport. “One in three fans that go to the grand prix are going for the first time,” said Domenicali
F1’s decision not to replace the Chinese Grand Prix means there will be a four-week gap between this weekend’s race and the next round in Azerbaijan. Domenicali previously said F1 decided to leave the slot empty because “the economic benefit of a replacement race was not worth the logistical and sustainability considerations for F1 and our teams.”
Source: https://www.racefans.net/2023/03/30/f1-could-have-32-grands-prix-today-because-everyone-wants-one-domenicali/

So I guess Ivy acceptances come out today. That's pretty darn big - and I obviously assume nerves are high-strung today.
To those who end up getting an acceptance (or multiple!) to schools you've been eyeballing - congrats! I hope your next 4 years are incredible but not burnout-y, and that you make the most of the opportunities presented to you.
To those who get rejected/have to opt for safeties - your life is not defined by the decision of admissions committees you'll never physically meet. You all have the aptitude and drive to succeed in whatever institution you end up going to, and clawing it in this shitshow of a real adult world the past generations have built for us. I can't promise it'll be perfect, but it will be ok. Your efforts have not been in vain just because your admissions process didn't go the way you thought it did - they have built you into a stronger, smarter person than you were before.
And since I ended up writing a long post on this in response to a particular person I figured I might just repost it as a standalone thread because by diggity do some in these communities need to internalize it (I for sure did when I was in HS): those of you (both seniors and younger classes) who are approaching college applications/prep'ing for them throughout HS as a matter of "I need to be spending as much time as I can on studying/test prep/EC's that'll look flashy to an AO" - please leave time for true rest and relaxation.
One of the books my therapist told me to read/listen to was Brene Brown's The Power of Vulnerability, and she spends part of that book (practice #7 on this link) touching on how "play" - defined as time a) spent without purpose that b) leads to a loss of self-consciousness and which c) we don't want to end - is important in stress alleviation, sparking joy, and managing burnout.
Sure, it may seem like the time you spend doing things that you can't put down on a college application is less productive than other activities, but it's part of an important balance inside our brains. The link I gave cites Charles Whitman as a case study in a highly-regimented life that had play removed from it, and another insightful example is Todd Marinovich, who was all but bred by his parents to be an NFL superstar QB, and yet had his career implode both in college and the NFL because his minmaxx "make every minute count" childhood came into conflict with the openness and freedom of college and adult life.
Find time to rest - your sleep is valuable - and find time to play, whether solo or with friends. The app process will teach you young to view exhaustion/overexertion as a status symbol (because you'll look at it as a ticket into a higher-prestige college, itself a status symbol), and that mindset is going to be incredibly unhealthy to carry into adulthood and will probably cost you money and time with a dedicated mental health specialist to unlearn. Don't fall into that trap to begin with.
It's something I should have heard back a decade ago when I was going through the throes of college prep - with days packed to the gills between managing my AP-heavy courseload, doing EC's I didn't like but my dad pushed me into because he thought universities would look favorably on them, test prep sessions, and extra math/science questions my dad made me do to be ahead of the curve in those classes (he had me drilling on calc problems the semester before I took AB, so I knew the foundations of derivatives when I started taking that class). The only real free time I had was in the car-ride to-from school, and in the middle of the night if I tried to wake up early at 2/3AM to have a few hours to myself before the start of the school day - which is a pretty foolish thing to do long-term given the side-effects of sleep debt.
That combination of overexertion and some blind luck got me a resume I thought would be a ticket into the schools I was eying - a decent enough GPA, fantastic test scores, and a raft of "impressive" EC's. But between the "impressiveness" of the EC's being based on completely false preconceptions and my GPA lagging a couple notches behind my peers, that effort didn't get me into the schools I was eying as a 17 year-old.
And yet - to circle back to the first part of this ramble - that failure to get into USC/UNC-CH/whatnot didn't end up sinking my life. I had a great time in college, truly got to blossom socially (after being pent up at home for a lot of HS doing the aforementioned "prep"), experienced a lot of cool stuff, and through my work and hustle there landed a well-paying job in a tech field I find interesting working for a cause I care about. The knock-on benefits it provides are generous enough that I was able to attend a lot of therapy in the past few years to smooth over mental rough patches from when I was a slightly younger dude.
Sure, things probably could have gone better on paper along the way, but I don't know if for sure they'd have made me a better person than I am today. At the end of the day - a decade removed from this maelstrom - things turned out okay. And I'm comfortable betting they'll turn out okay for you as well.

TLDR - Family are estranged from me and I feel powerless that I’ll never get to know them
I (25F) am the product of an affair. My mother was seeing my father although he was married to another woman and claimed to be separated.
I was told he came to visit from time to time until I was 3 and an then took nothing to do with me or my mother.
I have contacted him a handful of times over the years and he wants nothing to do with me and claims my mother got pregnant to keep my father even though I was told he was happy. Couple that with seeing me when I was younger and signing birth certificate which in my country your not obligated to do, it didn’t make sense why he just dropped us as if we were nothing.
I had seen he had an online friend with the same surname and had speculated them to be my half sibling, but not wanting to find out for sure in case their mother was the women my father was married to. Today I got their birth certificate and turns out he also never married my half sisters mother - she was the product of an affair as her mother was married at the time and only got divorced 15 years after her birth
It frustrates me we both were born from an affair yet my father chose to raise her, let her have his surname. I just don’t get what I’ve done to be estranged from their family, he wants nothing to do with me, she did at least reply to my message but just tells me to ask her father questions
It’s messing with my head, why not just block me on social media so I could never have found them.
I’m not in a good place mentally, I have lost my sister and mother in recent years, all I have left is my brother and my own family but just feel adrift from everyone and powerless to the other family I’m trying to seek out. It makes me wish I wasn’t here sometimes that I’ll never get any closure from them

The game crashes at least once every three games, usually more. Sometimes 4 times in a row completely putting me out of commission for a game. It has happened to me twice now that toxic players started calling to report me in chat for being bad. The first time i was trying Io for the first time and just wasn't very good. I'm just not allowed to try new things i guess? Today it happened again and i was straight up just not bad this match. They're just being an asshole. I typed this entire post in the period during a game where I'm restarting the game and crashing again immediately. It's 4 times now. So sick of this shit.