A place for all things s'nalbans.
After waiting two years on the waitlist for RAV4 PHEV, I finally got a text saying the next car coming in April is flagged under my name. I went into the dealership to assess how much my old car (Honda CRV) would be and he said this CRV is too old and he would only sell if we sell our Lexus UX250h which we are currently needing as the second car and has no plans to sell soon.
This seems illegal as selling our Lexus ux250h was not part of the initial contract of buying the RAV4 PHEV.
I put a complaint to Toyota Canada but it has 200 word limit. I’m curious as to know what other steps I can take to ultimately assess whether this is legal and what other actions I can take?
I am a working professional living with my parents to also help care for them as it’s very common in my culture. I am not married and do not have a mortgage or any monthly debt. I want to buy my dream car but this is my first time purchasing a new car by myself. Some stats below. I just want to figure out how likely it is I’ll be approved for a car loan like this?
Credit score: 675
Monthly debt: None (no mortgage, rent, etc)
Annual salary: $85,000
Car cost: $115,000
My down payment: $40,000
Remainder that may be financed: $75,000
Loan period: 72 months
Do you think the bank / dealership will approve me for a loan of $75,000? I know this is quite high and there are cheaper cars out there but I want to see if this is possible. I don’t anticipate buying a house in the next few years and I plan to pay extra every month as I am v lucky to not have bills but I have no idea if this is even approvable. I’m not asking if it’s a good idea, just if it’s possible. Wdyt?
After 4 years at my current job and some personal problems I decided to put my two weeks in and my job and my boss refused to accept it. My father was diagnosed with cancer, chemo just started this week and my boss kept pushing for a leave of absence or family leave instead of just leaving and if I’m still miserable to give two weeks after that. The absolute truth is I hated the job before the cancer but between both things I’ve been way too stressed out. Despite telling my boss my feelings the conversation ended with “sleep on it and we’ll talk tomorrow”, 2 hrs later he calls me and asks if I’m willing to meet with hr to discuss leave. I told him we’d talk tomorrow. Within the last few months multiple other employees have left the job for various reasons and there have been huge changes made recently that a lot of people don’t like.
It’s now 11pm where I live and I’m honestly just upset and riddled with anxiety. This is my first “real” job I’m leaving even though it’s shitty and I’m honestly dreading going in tomorrow. For those who ask I’m a mechanic at a car dealership and this was the discussion with the service manager.
Is he doing the right thing or just making me feel guilty? I’d also like to add that I’m 23M and this is my first real job since graduation from a tech school.
CAREER EMPLOYEES! Tired of seeing all these jobs go to the street? Your chance to join the gravy train ranks is here
! Apply yourself, you can do
it! MSS Coordinator varies by District. Find an APWU steward and ask for more information if the Exam Open Season blurb is not posted at your facility.
Good afternoon. Brief listing of CAREER JOBS pulled from usps.com/careers/
for your convenience.
Some jobs may be part-time regular however all
listed jobs should qualify for federal benefits from day one. To save text I have only listed the location and date of posting for each. Use the posting number for your search term. LC and MM are entry-level Maintenance. Here
is a testimonial from a recent convert, prima1981
. NOTE: USPS NEVER charges a fee for entrance exams. If payment is requested during the application process, walk the fuck away, go to usps.com/careers/ and APPLY THERE. We even has a video walkthrough prepared.
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No experience necessary
for the laborer custodial or maintenance mechanic positions. It helps on the interview but you can surely think of maintenance related experience to relay for an interview. Based on fixing things around your house, the car etc. Always
mention working safely.
You can apply for any job that has an exam opening and the test is administered local to yourself. Make sure you're serious and score decently; you can turn down the job offer. Keep a physical copy of your exam score, I believe they are good for two years.
The reason is: These job postings can be posted externally at capacity for testing, meaning they will not allow you to take the exam if they have enough qualified applicants. However, if you have a test score on the books, you
are a qualified applicant.
Explanation of MVO/TTO to save time:
MVO= CDL B Can only drive box trucks on public roads, can drive anything for moves on postal property.
TTO= CDL A Can drive anything.
USPS provides the training. (Maintenance jobs at least. TTO and management...GOOD LUCK)
You don't have to be crazy to work here. We'll train you. Everything but proper email usage.
I took my car into a dealership today to get my brake pads changed. On the appointment online there was only “change rotors/brake pads” option so I chose that. Now I am a female who knows very little about cars and I lost track of when they changed the rotors last time (but I knew it was done in the last 3 years). I figured the dealership would let me know if my rotors actually needed replacing and do the necessary repairs. They ended up changing the rotors and pads and it came to hundreds of dollars. I went home and filed through past invoices and see that indeed I had these replaced less than 3 years ago with less than 20k of driving. Are they not supposed to last for another 40k or so? Is it common for them to not let you know about unnecessary repairs (and because I’m a female who knows little about auto mechanics)? I should have checked this before I went into the dealership but it was a lesson learned?
Are there any good and honest car dealerships near the La Jolla/Clairemont/Mira Mesa area? I’ve searched around Yelp and found some with good reviews but I still wanna hear some anecdotal experiences.
As a college student getting his first car, I don’t really wanna get scammed, especially during these times.
Absolutely adore this vehicle, can't believe I get to drive it everyday. HOWEVER, the infotainment is pretty horrendous. I see lots of videos and pictures of people putting Tesla style screens into their cars and trucks.
From the little research I've done I might have two options that could work but I have a few questions and don't know where else to ask.
What kind of shop would do this work? Car audio specialist? The dealership? A window tint place ?
If anyone's had it done how much was labor and did you retain all original function including the steering wheel controls ?
Is that amount of money worth it for a faster gps,Android auto, and aesthetics?
Thanks for any help y'all can provide.
Also it doesn't have to be a giant ipad level modification. Just something newer.
Long backstory: I'm [F]15 and I live in an apartment with my mom and recently my dad. My parents split[after moving to st.paul] when I was young and because of my mom and her issues I didn't have a relationship with my father other than spending the night with him, my uncle and his wife and my cousin every few months. Otherwise he was a ghost. When we moved back to my hometown where my family lives when I was 6 or so, my dad and I started to reconnect as much as we could. He was always nonchalant and quiet but very hardworking and usually reliable. I lived with him for a few years when I was 10 to 12 while my mom was really deep in her addiction until she got clean, and things happened and I had to stay with her. During those 2 years dad had a crazy native girlfriend [30 something] and later a crazy stupid girlfriend at the time who was 22. She was completely insufficient in any useful life skills and had previously been in 2 relationships (In the first one she was abusive as she told me and in the second one she was abused). When my father got with her she was about to lose her town boys from her second relationship for doing weed and coke during her pregnancy and since her ex had a felony and domestic charges they were going to be put into foster care. In the end she lost them both because she failed to make a genuine effort to either get clean or keep them, god forbid both at the same time. And convinced dad to get a dog I explicitly told him I did not want and was not going to help take care of. While after all that,,, dad with the scarps scraped together a semi successful restaurant.
Fast forward 7 months she's crashed all 3 of my dad's cars thanks to the weather up here near the border, and got dad sent to prison[She left an unlicensed played white car full of drugs in front of his business and he took the fall because the police said it was in his. Something I was not made aware of until 2 months after my father had disappeared from prison which I did not know about either. But I'll get to that] for what was supposed to be 4 years for an almost federal level drug charge after getting pregnant with him. I was while he was in the process of being detained, told J was going to have a sleepover at my mom's with no further details. And was later told everything[she knew] a week before his trial by my mom. During this time my dad's girlfriend decided to go on a week long trip to Las Vegas and leave the dog she insisted on getting alone in his kennel and texted me to 'take him out', mind you I did not live in the same building as her. I ended up just taking him with me much to my father's dismay because she harassed him non stop about not having the dog anymore. She later brought to Cane corso puppies while dad was in prison with his money, and got kicked out because they didn't have papers for them and it was originally a no pets building. Thankfully for her though she got into the Jeremiah program and had a place to live after, and dad did not get his security deposit back because she let his new puppies pee and poop everywhere, especially my old room which still has most of my stuff because I only packed to have a sleepover at my mom's months prior.
After all that, my dad got out 3 years early on good behavior because they were getting full of actually bad criminals and couldn't hold everyone, and let the small fries free.
So his child with her was born right after he got out, and she got her rights terminated because she was on drugs this entire pregnancy too, and dad has fought tooth and nail to get the rights to have her the past three months she's been alive. My mom thankfully let them both stay here while everything was sorted out legally,, plus it was the only place dad could get her approved to stay at. And she even let his somehow still girlfriend stay there for a bit too even though that is completely illegal because she is supposed to have no contact. After she did drugs in mom's sober apartment and I told mom how much I hate her she refused to let her over anymore, and I have also been taking care of the baby until my mom gets off work after I get home from school everyday while trying to keep my grades up and continue participating in my activities.
Another detail I remembered, One day before dad went to prison she and I got into a fight after most of the bad stuff before he went to prison, and he decided to talk to me instead of her because I was her by talking about the boys she lost to the system. After he hit me multiple times AND I hit her back once, he was present in the room and watched the entire thing. I mean I get I'm not the feminine daughter you wanted but seriously dad?
Anyways I'm working on my grades taking care of my dad's kid for a few hours every day.
On to the AITH part:
Today my mom had a dentist appointment, and my dad had to leave for work at the usual time when I got home from school. I actually skipped school for an unrelated reason but when I got home had to take care of a baby, dad told be mom had an appointment and she wouldn't be back at all today[recently mom's been hanging out with this guy she likes everyday and hour before dad gets home leaving me with the baby an hour after I would prefer to go to sleep for school and an hour longer than before.] That after her appointment she's going to a NA meeting and then going to her friends, and that mom said it was okay for my dad's ex to come over and help me watch the baby while dad was at work.
Now I have often handed her off as soon as I could, and I Am Not The BEST at taking care of her. But mom and dad know how much I hate that woman who is somehow almost ten years older than me with the maturity of a 7th grader.
So I told my father no. Dad said mom said it was okay, and I calmly said I don't care I will not let her in. I can take care of her by myself. Dad proceeded to say "Then I'll stay to let her in." So he went outside.
I assumed he went to work cause he would be late if he didn't leave then and there but just in case I did the chain lock. And who would've guessed 20 minutes later he comes back, unlocks the door and trusts to open it with his girlfriend standing beside him. He knocks when I don't open it and asks me to let them in and she is going to help me while dad is gone. I hesitantly set the baby down in her bassinet and went and unlocked the door and told dad, she is not coming inside here.
Me and dad are for a few minutes, and dad says he won't let me have her here alone" like that's been an issue until now. and I brag that "she hasn't cried since you left 20 something minutes ago and was fine till you made me set her down." He responds "you know earlier this week cos came by because the neighbors complained she was crying all night." I did not know that, and she was a fussy baby either way even when all her needs were met she would cry just cause she could. Especially so when she was with me. But all last week she was terrible for everyone including him and mom. And the fact he had the audacity to say that to me. I rudely told him no, and he said "If you won't let her in then I'll just stay home." Which is a big deal for him because he had to cut his hours when he got temporary custody of her and has been late a lot. But I was angry and would rather drop out of highschool and work to pay dads rent then be in a room with her so I said "do it." All the while her girlfriend stood there dumbfounded saying "I thought I was going to see my baby." Even though she has historically done a worse job than me, and it is straight up completely lose all custody illegal to have her with the baby outside of scheduled visits once of which she had this morning while my as home.
He did it, and right after he said "If you're going to act like an adult I'm going to treat you like an adult." Told me to get out of his face, aka 4 feet away from him in the shared living room and indirectly threatened to hit me if I didn't leave because I'm an “adult” now.
Dad has chosen to ignore my existence, and indirectly disowned me, and refused to let me help him even though his hands are full.
I've been talking to my mom as much as I could be she has only responded to a handful of my messages
It's 6 hours later close too when dad would get off work. And he called his girlfriend to get him food even though I had a pizza[I had to beg my mom to order me because dad was ignoring me and I doubt he would've got me food]and asked if he wanted any to which he ignored me again.
I'm sitting in my room and I've been crying on and off and I really don't know what to do.shoudk I apologize? Would he even listen?
Am I really the AH for making my dad not go to work cause he didn't trust me enough to leave me with his kid.
Sorry for grammatical weeks or confusion. I wrote this entire thing in a Fit of rage and depression because I'm starting to feel like I'm the one in the wrong.
If you or anyone you know had a car parked on 15th St NW between W and Belmont St NW that was hit/damaged last Saturday night / Monday morning, I have the license plate of the person that hit multiple cars (I witnessed it happen and wrote it down at the time). I previously called the non-emergency line to report it but after a significant time on hold I gave up. PM me if you need the license plate number.