Hairstyles for big noses and foreheads

Who's got your nose?

2013.02.09 00:51 xPye Who's got your nose?


2012.05.16 23:52 Curly Girl Method

This subreddit is dedicated to all things curly and the Curly Girl Method. Here, we celebrate and embrace our natural curls, discuss hair care techniques and products, and offer support and advice to one another. The Curly Girl Method, developed by Lorraine Massey, is a hair care approach that emphasizes the use of sulfate-free and silicone-free products, as well as avoiding heat styling tools. This method can result in healthier, bouncier, and more defined curls.

2019.04.07 16:11 Movie Cliches

This is a list of the most annoying and common logic flaws and stereotypes found in movies. Comments, additions and suggestions welcome!

2023.03.31 17:11 Thingstodo919 Things to do in Raleigh this Weekend!




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2023.03.31 17:11 A_lil_crazy_n_kind Capricorn situationship man stalks my insta after I ended things with him

I'll try to keep this brief. I (31F) met with this Capricorn guy (30M) from my hometown on a dating app. We texted a bit and decided to meet when I visited my hometown. Before that he said he's not looking for serious and I said I am looking for serious. So we ended up deciding to meet up a couple of times and see which direction it goes. Fast forward, we meet and I'm embarrassed to admit it but I fell in love with him at first sight, or rather first meet. We had an incredible 3 hours together and he joked that I should come back soon otherwise what if he gets married. We meet another time 3 weeks later and it's the same f*cking fireworks. I knew I was screwed anyways because he didn't want anything serious. So, very painfully, I let go of this notion that he'll ever have feelings for me and decided to see him as long as I could. We met couple more times and I made it clear to him that I respect his choice and will never push him for anything. He was very affectionate in those dates and kissed my forehead and hugged me for a long time before he had to leave etc etc etc It just so happened that I had to stay away for two months. In this time he kept asking me when I'll be visiting every few days. When I returned, we met up and during our conversation over some topic he tells me that he's made out with other people. He explained that we never said anything about exclusive. I told him that he should have at least let me know. I had to leave for home due to some emergency and we couldn't finish this conversation. Next day I ended things with him because I couldn't stay in that sort of a relationship. He said he understands and didn't once try to stop me. Now all was not normal but as expected up until this point. But after that day that I ended things with him, he has been heavily stalking my social media. If I post a story, he has viewed it within seconds to minutes, literally. I don't know what to make of this behaviour. Yes his body language and gestures sometimes suggested that he felt more than he was letting on but he never once admitted anything. All he said was don't get serious etc etc etc. Now I don't know what to make of this social media stalking. If he has so many options available to make out with then what is the big need to stalk some girl's social media whom you've met a handful of times and say you don't have feelings for. Am I missing something here?
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2023.03.31 17:10 Krimm240 Grey Galactic Public Alpha v0.942 Now Available!


Grey Galactic is a real time strategy game in space where you build up your planets and ships to conquer your enemies. Develop your planets and fleet of spaceships to destroy your enemies and take over the galaxy! Do you have what it takes to become the best Fleet Captain the UFMC has ever seen?
Currently the game is only available for Windows, and is optimized for 1920x1080. The game is in an alpha state, which means there are likely many bugs, unfinished features, framerate drops, balance issues, and placeholder graphics, as well as no sound or music at the moment. The only play type currently available is 1v1 vs the computer, with both players as the Human race.
The download is a zip file, and apparently some people have issues opening the file on Windows 11. The current fix is to disable Windows SmartScreen, but hopefully in the future that won't be an issue.
If you take the time to play, I hope you enjoy it! I'd love any and all feedback I can get from anyone about anything at all. Big thanks to those who do check it out!
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2023.03.31 17:09 tsukasasyugi Twirls hair

Twirls hair
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2023.03.31 17:09 latunza Should I Bargain for a Promotion During these Layoffs?

Today marks 8 years since I started working in big tech. Its been one of the most exhausting careers I've ever had. The hurdles have been astronomical. I've held 4 roles in these 8 years and have been in the same role since 2020 and have seen all my peers get promoted, some twice over. In that time I've held 60% of my teams portfolio, over worked myself and almost never take off. My team has an average 3-4 projects, I have 14 across the globe on a larger scale. I get praises year over year and have kept my team a float bringing in savings of over $103 million alone in 2022.
BUT, I've also seen my team (11 out of 12 - 12 being me) get promoted for lessehalf baked work. When I ask I get so many excuses and things I have to work on which in this year I just told them I've done all of that as one of the longest working members in this company (The Big A to Z). When I approached HR they said I meet and exceed the requirements for next level.
How do I know they can make this happen anytime they want? In 2019, I was an Operations manager and part of manager reviews. I mentioned the discontent of a manager and them wanting to leave. In 3 months he got promoted to my level, 2 months after that he got promoted again to the next level above me.
I got a job offer from another company for a director level role for something I really wanted. My only hesitation to jump ships especially with all the layoffs (My team went from 12 to 3), is the pay. The most they can offer me is half of what I get paid.
Should I use this offer to leverage my role and try to get next level? or, since we're going through layoffs, will this backfire?
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2023.03.31 17:09 arothmanmusic Swapping 15 AMP outlet for 20 AMP?

As part of an annual service contract, we just had our first "whole home electrical inspection." Now, this house is almost a century old, so I knew we'd have ungrounded outlets and other stuff, but what really surprised me was that the majority of the issues were in the kitchen that we just had gutted and replaced in 2020. The electricians did stuff like putting the appliances on the same circuits as their adjacent wall outlets, which is apparently a no-no... although I suspect that's because our panel is totally maxed out and the project didn't include redoing all of that stuff.
Anyway, the electricians gave us a big list of things to do (oddly, none of which was "get rid of the remaining knob and tube"). Aside from upgrading the panel and other big-ticket items, I'm seeing several lines of "Install/Replace GFCI Outlet;-Install dual function 20 amp gfi in place of 15 amp standard gfi." They're quoting $135 per outlet for that. Since I have removed and replaced plenty of outlets over the years, I know that's a simple and inexpensive job I could tackle for much less.
However, since this was part of a much bigger quoted list, I want to be sure I understand. Is this, as I'm assuming, simply a matter of removing a 15 amp receptacle and installing a 20 amp in its place, or is switching up to a higher amp outlet predicated on having already upgraded the panel and wiring behind it?
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2023.03.31 17:09 tributes444 Need more big dicks and big loads for tributes. Have a hottie with an amazing ass drain your dicks all over 🥵

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2023.03.31 17:09 WillIeverfindtheway 19 [F4M] Anywhere/Online. To Be Entirely At Home With Someone Else.

My major fields of Interest: 1-Philosophical/Religious discussions and debates. 2-Languages and Art.


•What I am looking for: Getting to know and hopefully finding true love with someone who... •Is constantly reflecting upon the nature of things and endeavoring to come to an adequate understanding of the human mind and heart. •Is enthusiastic about this kind of knowledge and its application in his own life. •Knows or is working towards comprehending the value of what is spiritual. And... With whom I can spend quality time, as also LEARN and derive encouragement from.
Physically I do look for this:

• That you take care of your appearance to the degree that is most reasonable, meaning you strive to be healthy and are not overweight.


•Please send a description of yourself on your first message and feel free to ask whatever you are curious about. Adding a picture will make it a lot more likely that I will answer.

•Outside of this app I use Telegram and WhatsApp only, with a big preference for the former. •It is crucial that we are compatible: in salutary fundamental ways alike.
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2023.03.31 17:09 koomin1609 [QUESTION] Need a piece of advice. Trying to choose my first electric. Squier vs Sire vs HB

Hi. I've been thinking about buying an electric guitar for quite some time. I'm not really skilled when it coems to playing guitar. I have a cheap acoustic that I'm trying to learn on, but I want to get an electric and get more serious with learning. I know I want a strat, but can't decide which specific one to choose. I have 3 guitars on my mind:
Squier Classic Vibe 60s Strat Sire Lary Carlton S3 Harley Benton ST-25TH
When it comes to Squier - I love the vintage look of it. I'm also a big fan of John Frusciante, so having a Fenderish guitar would be nice. Sire on the other hand is a nice alternative. A bit better specs than Squier perhaps(?). Looks are fine, but I like Squier more. Benton kind of came out of nowhere. I know it's a new guitar, so hard to get any opinions. I was always afraid of those guitars when it came to strats, as they just seem too cheap sometimes. But the anniversary one cauhgt my eye. Also the specs look really good on paper. Still a bit worried about QC.
I would be glad to read your thoughts guys. Maybe it will help me make a decision. Also feel free to give your types od guitars in a similar price range.
Thanks :)
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2023.03.31 17:08 mushdamalone i'm giving myself one final chance, i'm praying i don't fuck it up

so there are officially 24 days till my big exams and i havent studied shit, and if i continue not studying shit i'll kill myself. so from today onwards i'll wake up at 6 am and study for 16 hrs minimum - its sounds insane but its my only option. if i can do it i'll finally feel proud of myself for once and won't kms, and most importantly i'll pass my exams. usually during the night i get random bouts of motivation that disappear the next day so 💀 i'll just have to push through hahah y'all please wish me luck
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2023.03.31 17:08 gaetan-ae Quake II is underappreciated

Everyone knows about Quake II, but I hear very little about in the N64 community. It's a shame because it's one of the best N64 titles in my opinion. The first interesting thing is that it's not a straight port of the PC version, the campaign is completely new, so even if you've played the PC version you'll find something new here. It looks absolutely gorgeous, and it's even more impressive in that it never really drops much in framerate. The sound design is one of the finest examples on the console, very atmospheric. Gameplay-wise, it is pure late 90s PC FPS : the levels are short, you go from point A to point B while shooting the enemies in your way. The shooting itself is really fun and lends itself to varied tactics thanks to the different weapons. Movement plays a big part, you'll need to know how to approach the enemies, when to show yourself and when to hide again.
In short I really like that this offers such a different experience than Goldeneye or Perfect Dark. This is ironically quite a breath of fresh air on the N64. If you like FPSes and you haven't played Quake II on the N64, do yourself a favor and give it a chance !

ps : We really need a flair for simple game discussion
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2023.03.31 17:08 3uytyu4 - Scarlet Chase is fucking incredible! Scarlet has a super sexy bog big perfect tits the hottest piercings ever and an insatiable lust for anal sex! - Scarlet Chase is fucking incredible! Scarlet has a super sexy bog big perfect tits the hottest piercings ever and an insatiable lust for anal sex! submitted by 3uytyu4 to liness7701 [link] [comments]

2023.03.31 17:08 Confused_Robot_ Is a Masters Degree worth it?

I (like many others) have been struggling to find a new job as of late. In trying to think of creative ways around the problem one of the option I landed on is to pursue a masters. The reasons I like this option for myself are as follows:
  1. I have no technical degree, I was a philosophy major in college, who completed a bootcamp post grad. It feels as though possessing a technical degree IE a masters in some comp sci discipline could legitimize me in the eyes of an employer.
  2. I'm a strong communicator and a people person. I have always thought that merging my technical skills with communication skills in some kind of management role would be somewhere I could thrive, getting an MS would help to cover some of the project management experience I lack.
  3. It will give time for the job market to settle. If it take me a couple years to do the masters, I can do small freelance work to help pay for it, and avoid having to compete for the full time positions, while making a meaningful impact on my career.
These are kind of the big hitter reasons I have been leaning toward this option, so I'm curious to hear if people think this is a good idea or not. As always any input is appreciated!
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2023.03.31 17:08 bostonstoner How to go on hiatus for maternity leave?

Hi Rover Sitters,
I'm 34 weeks pregnant and up until recently we were running a brisk dog boarding and care business on Rover and through local connections (handing out business cards at dog park etc.) But I can't board people's dogs right after I give birth, and probably not for the next several months. My planned reopening date is in mid-August or early September.
I already marked myself as "unavailable" for the span of time I expect to be on leave, and then plan to mark "Away" once I roll up the business for real in a few days (and try to get all the dog hair out of my house lol.)
Is there anything else I should do? Post an announcement on my Rover page about the baby, maybe, or would that just drive away future business? There is plenty of room in my house for a nursery and a 3-4 dog boarding business and I do not plan to have the baby interact with guest dogs ever (or at least not for the first couple years.) I don't think the baby is going to be a problem for the dogs, though dog noise might be a problem for the baby.
I love doing this business, I just invested a lot of my profits into a big fenced in yard for outdoor play, and walking the dogs and petting them, washing them and stuff just feels right, like I'm doing something helpful and necessary and loving. Do you think I can still swing it with a baby in tow? I do have a partner who helps 50% with the business, mostly with afternoon walking, check-ins and check-outs; and I handle bookings, feedings, grooming and morning walking.
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2023.03.31 17:08 SnooHedgehogs2496 how much longer are you guys letting him stay

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2023.03.31 17:07 Cathens Feeling discouraged

I recently switched to using cloth overnight and things were going great. We found that a birdseye flat in airplane fold with a newborn prefold padfolded inside gives us the absorbency we need, and a wool cover works brilliantly to keep his clothes dry. This combination is still working great for pee, but in the last week or week and a half, he’s started having one big poop a day, and it’s always in the middle of the night or early morning before we’re up. It usually wakes him, which wakes me, so I can change it right away, but it’s been escaping the flat and last night, enough got out of the flat that it also got out the leg hole of his wool cover. Any advice on how to get the flat snugger around his legs? Is it because of the bulk of the prefold inside? I’m extra frustrated because I only have one wool cover his current size, so every time I wash it, we have to use disposables.
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2023.03.31 17:07 OriginallyGinger-403 Teams of Legend Wish List

So we have a few teams of legend that need to release still (hopefully with some new ones too cough cough looking at you chaos teams but that's besides the point).
If you had total control of how the teams of legend what would you change or add to these teams (if any).
For me I think
Vampires could use some verity, so I think 0-4 regular vamps, 0-2 special vamps (either quarterback or blitzer?), keep the thralls and add a big guy like Varghul or a stragoi vamp?
Chaos dwarfs are pretty good but I would love to see them have iron hard skin on the chorf blockers (for the lore lol) Maybe add a secret weapon bombadir? Or something this one less sure on. What do you think?
Tomb Kings/ Khemri I really love this team and I'm nor sure what you could change as it works really well other then renaming the anointed throwers/ blitzers back to Throwras and Blitzras. Yall got any changes in mind?
High Elves again like Khemri not sure how or if this one needs changes as they are pretty good already (basic change is give us models lol) any thoughts on changes for these pompous lads?
And I guess what other teams you want to see for Blood bowl? I think more stunty teams would be nice, Cathay and the aforementioned two chaos teams we are missing (Tzeentch and Slaanesh) ik the secret league exists and GW treats bb pretty piss poor but official support is nice to see.
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2023.03.31 17:07 Damnation13 Why Would GGG Push So Many Nerfs With D4 On The Horizon? You're shunning potential new players away on the eve of D4.

After the D4 betas there were so many posts about enthusiastic D4 beta players who never tried POE but decided to create an account and play because they got the itch for an ARPG.
I think it is a big mistake on GGG's part to not capitalize on this urge to play an ARPG before the launch of D4. POE should be putting its best foot forward to convince these new players that POE is superior to D4.
The dedicated POE players already know this. We have already played through huge nerfs before and we still love the game. The most recent nerfs that come to mind that were particularly devastating include: flask nerfs, gems dmg reductions, and triggered spells costing mana.
This leagues concept looks amazing and super exciting, but it confuses me to hell when GGG says they want to make early game more fun and accessible, and also stated very few nerfs, but then drop the patch notes. The patch notes ripped out many of the most important mastery nodes, and took away many of the most fun or important leveling gems/recipes.
This move has led to a large outcry by the community. I already saw people commenting on Ziz's twitter about how they came to POE after playing D4, but having seen the POE community say how bad the new changes are, has made them change their mind about trying POE.
GGG, please, I beg you. For the health of this game and to increase the community before D4 launches, please reconsider adding back some of what you took away and maybe rebalancing some under used skills. You don't need to significantly play test 10-20% increases for undenever used skills. Let us have fun.
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2023.03.31 17:07 batm0n If you stuck around

It's been a while, hasn't it? Life has changed so much, it's been crazy. You obviously wouldn't know due to the whole no-contact thing. I really had to do it. It hurt too much seeing your face everywhere. It still hurts.
I passed my big licensure exam. I officially graduate with my masters in May. How exciting. I feel like my hard work has finally paid off. I have been working at a local community mental health place and have changed so many lives. I got a great job at a private practice, paying me far more than I expected. I got an accountant and an LLC.
And here's the thing...for the longest time, I truly thought I would be nothing without you and when you left, I blamed myself for so long. Why didn't I just cook more? Or play DND longer? Or put your fucking laundry away? Save more money?
Oh yeah. Because I was sick. Why? Because I was being guilted into taking numerous pills that ultimately did nothing for me. Instead of listening to me, believing grew resentful. Upset I didn't have the time or energy to spend with you or your family.
And then I got my tattoo, and oh boy I guess that was the trigger because *I* didn't know how to save money. I started my internship and you knew I wasn't making a lot, and I wanted to do something to celebrate me and my growth. But still, my efforts were not enough. My parents were paying for the entire wedding. Put down deposit after deposit, which YOU APPROVED and were SO excited for, but suddenly the wedding was 'too big' and 'too grandiose'. I wonder who put those ideas in your head? Hmm...interesting.
You offered me a promise of support and love, through SICKNESS and in HEALTH, and threw that away without even a discussion. Remember that one time you wanted to do pre-martial counseling? LMAO what a fucking joke, clearly, because lets be real - it was never about the money, or the tattoo, or the fact that I didn't put your laundry away - you fell out of love with me, and you were too much of a coward to say so.
I am no longer on pills. My diagnosis was incorrect, and I am on such a better path now. It's actually hilarious, because my mental health is better than ever...and when I was with you and even my ex, I had these insane moments where I just wanted to die. I haven't throw up since August, funny enough. I haven't been 'manic' or 'depressed'. Sad, sure. But never to the extremes that I was when I was on those damn pills.
And my energy? Finally!! It's back. I can actually do things without feeling depleted, exhausted, nauseous...the list goes on.
Now? All I want to do is live. Travel. Work. Spend time with my loved ones. I have so many exciting things coming. PNW, Japan, New Zealand. I would have loved to do it all with you, at one point in time.
I am picking myself back up.
I am living for me, for the first time, in a very long time.
You were supposed to be my person.
Now? I am my person. Thank you for showing me that.
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2023.03.31 17:07 SauzaPaul Weekly Watch Report - March 31, 2023

Hey everybody! Seen anything you'd like to say a few words about? This is the spot, all are welcome.
Knock at the Cabin (2023) The first 40 or so minutes of this are as frustrating as can be, but when it settles in it’s pretty entertaining. I’m not someone who blindly hates M. Night at all, I dig both Old and The Visit. I don’t think I’d watch this one a 2nd time though. (Peacock)
Gamera vs Gyaos (1967) The 3rd Gamera film introduces Gyaos, a giant vampire bat-like creature that shoots a laser beam from its mouth that can slice and dice airplanes and warships with surgical precision faster than they can shoot weapons at it. He also cuts Gamera up pretty good too, but of course, the big turtle was distracted by the child-in-peril that he needed to rescue. He even flew him to safety on his back. It is soon realized that Gyaos is nocturnal, and like a vampire, starts to burn up in the sun, so the plan is to keep him out all night by pushing Gamera into a rematch…and then a third. In between the fights, they managed to nearly knock Gyaos dizzy by spinning him around on the roof of a revolving restaurant! The great terrapin eventually prevails and is ready for a new kid-saving adventure next year. This was shown on American TV as Return of the Giant Monsters. (DVD)
Strike Commando 2 (1988) Jungle thrills as Rambo meets Raiders of the Lost Ark. A new actor takes the role of Sgt Ransom as he attempts to rescue Richard Harris from drug/diamond smugglers. Richard Harris in a Bruno Matteio movie, ha! Also featuring Vic Diaz, like any good Filipino-shot movie should. (Midnight Pulp)
Hitcher in the Dark (1989) Rich boy drives a Winnebago around Virginia Beach picking up female hitchhikers and murdering them. Melrose Place’s Josie Bissett (in her very first role) takes a ride and ends up drugged, and tied down. The creep thinks she looks like his mother, so he cuts her hair and takes naked pictures. Her boyfriend is on the trail. Plenty of nudity, including a gratuitous wet t-shirt contest. From Umberto Lenzi (TUBI)
Pray for Death (1985) Sho Kosugi and his family are minding their own business when they're pulled into a jewel war by the mob and crooked cops, but they fucked with the wrong secret Ninja. Nice climax in a mannequin factory with a chainsaw. Fun, but I would have liked this revenge flick a little gorier. (YouTube)
Violence in a Woman’s Prison (1982) Laura Gemser is the new prisoner with a secret, her real-life husband Gabriele Tinti is the doctoinmate who is convicted of euthanizing his cancer-stricken wife. The first hour rolls along plotlessly, loaded with fights and sexual assault, but it really comes together at the end. Good stuff from Bruno Mattei, filmed back to back with Women’s Prison Massacre. (DVD)
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2023.03.31 17:07 jigby6 Three Weeks and 10 Pounds Later

Been trying to make better life choices lately in terms of my health, my diet, and just life in general. I'm a pretty bad people pleaser, and I've gained a lot of weight over the last 5 years from just personal stress and the nasty habit I have of using food as coping mechanism.
Finally making some big changes and actually seeing the results of those changes is really inspiring. I've gotten this far a few times in the past, but usually fall off and end up right back where I started. I'm not doing that this time though.
I've cut away the cancerous people and things from my life, the people that were only sources of negativity, the people that only wanted you around because they needed something, the people that took advantage of you because you were willing to help, and now I've surrounded myself with people who care about and love me for who I am instead. After years in a manipulative borderline abusive relationship, I'm finally starting to learn to find myself again, to be myself, to prioritize, to love, and the allow myself to be the person I always wanted to be rather than the people I was just expected to be.
It's not easy most days, I still hate this whale I see when I look in the mirror, I still struggle with not beating myself up about how I let myself get this way several times a week, but I also understand that progress is slow, and it's only a matter of time, and when I finally do become the person, I've always wanted to be. It'll be the final fuck you to all those people who I allowed to hold me back for all these years.
Anyway, thanks for listening to my bullshit.
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