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2023.06.05 13:26 _thatangrygirl I (F28) met someone (M30?) by chance and hit it off, but don’t know how to move forward
I was at a neighbour’s son’s wedding with a set seating arrangement, was sat to the left of a neighbour’s son (I’m the daughter of one of the residents in this neighbourhood area). There were about 7 pairs of neighbours (only parents, just 3 who brought the adult kiddos). Didn’t speak with him the whole night because of the awkward potato that I am so I was talking to my brother (to my left) mostly.
The dads got to talking and while I was facing my brother, got called upon because as it turns out, guy works in the same firm as me (but different department and field). So I turned 180° to talk to the guy and it turns out he’s a decent guy and we hit it off kinda well (at least I think so).
I wanted to wrap up the conversation because again, awkward potato, and also because I wanted to talk to another group of friends I saw at the wedding. He asked for my name (people at work call me by a different name than people from the family friends circle) and said he’ll look for me. Later that night I got a message on Teams (what we use for work) from the guy saying us meeting over a decade later is better than never (yeah we’ve been neighbours for that long but only just met) and I’m starting to feel smitten lol. He also reached out formally for a work-related thing so that’s kind of in the works too.
I’ve been out of the dating scene for a hot minute and started to feel jaded but this sparked hope that decent guys still exist out there. I wanna pursue this but I’m not sure how without coming across too eager. Right now out correspondence is mainly through work channels but he comes across as being quite open? We’re both just busy with the day to day and he’s based in a different office location so it’s hard to “bump into” each other.
How do I go about this?
P/S: question mark at his age because I don’t actually know for sure lol it’s an assumption based on when he graduated
TLDR: met a guy who turns out to be a neighbour and works in the same firm, seeking advice on how to move forward.
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The dads got to talking and while I was facing my brother, got called upon because as it turns out, guy works in the same firm as me (but different department and field). So I turned 180° to talk to the guy and it turns out he’s a decent guy and we hit it off kinda well (at least I think so).
I wanted to wrap up the conversation because again, awkward potato, and also because I wanted to talk to another group of friends I saw at the wedding. He asked for my name (people at work call me by a different name than people from the family friends circle) and said he’ll look for me. Later that night I got a message on Teams (what we use for work) from the guy saying us meeting over a decade later is better than never (yeah we’ve been neighbours for that long but only just met) and I’m starting to feel smitten lol. He also reached out formally for a work-related thing so that’s kind of in the works too.
I’ve been out of the dating scene for a hot minute and started to feel jaded but this sparked hope that decent guys still exist out there. I wanna pursue this but I’m not sure how without coming across too eager. Right now out correspondence is mainly through work channels but he comes across as being quite open? We’re both just busy with the day to day and he’s based in a different office location so it’s hard to “bump into” each other.
How do I go about this?
P/S: question mark at his age because I don’t actually know for sure lol it’s an assumption based on when he graduated
TLDR: met a guy who turns out to be a neighbour and works in the same firm, seeking advice on how to move forward.
2023.06.05 13:26 Skelewolf23 A year ago this entire week..
It was the best week of my life, we spent the week volunteering at a middle school we went to where we became best friends. It was the only time outside of school we got to spend time with each other outside of the watch of our parents. We clung to each other more than anything even while we were working on something. If we were separated we’d finish the job quickly and run off to look for each other. This morning I was getting ready to do something else and a friend of mine asked if I was volunteering again this year. I said no because I really am busy this week and the next but at the same time I’d rather not step foot there again because I know It’d trigger me and even just not being there hurts. I haven’t been doing as well as I first was when I had broken no contact but got left on read. I’ve gotten worse again honestly. I don’t know I just need to talk to someone and I don’t mean in the sense of looking for romance I just need someone to talk to.
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2023.06.05 13:25 manjirinadkarni_ 5 Dietary Habits That Are Wrecking Your Digestion
It is not just about what you eat but how you eat too! Even though you are eating as clean as you can, there has to be a reason why you are still bloated, crampy, running to the ladies room, anxious and tired all the time. You may or may not realize, but your recent weight gain and constant fatigue are all related to your diet as well as digestion.
Here is a list of the 5 common poor dietary habits I have seen people follow that totally wreck their digestion
#1 EATING WHEN NOT HUNGRY
Hunger is the biggest cue that your body needs nourishment. Hunger is also a sign that your Jatharagni or digestive fire is stroked and working well. Have you ever wondered whether you eat because you are hungry or just because the clock tells you that it’s the time to eat?
I have seen so many people focus on eating at fixed times that they totally forget to check in with their body whether it feels hunger or not.
Eating when not hungry is the no 1 cause indigestion. Eating when not hungry means that brain has not received any signals from your stomach to secrete any digestive juices to carry out digestion and hence your stomach is ill-prepared for the food that’s being stuffed into it. If your stomach is not going to secret sufficient digestive juice, how can you digest the food that you are eating? In Ayurvedic medicine, this semi-digested or undigested product of digestion is known as ‘Ama’ and is circulated through your body serving as undigested toxin, creating inflammation in your body further causing allergies, stiffness, joint pain, as well as weight gain.
#2 EATING TO NUMB YOUR EMOTIONS
Is there someone who doesn’t eat emotionally…the answer is probably a few in a million. Today’s fast track life where people barely have time for anything, how can they find time to feel their emotions. Sometimes emotions like sadness, worry, loneliness, anxiety are harder to understand and process, as people don’t even know they are going through it for the lack of mindfulness. So the quick solution is food.
Today people turn to food for entertainment, comfort, stress relief, or as a reward rather than to nourish their body and mind. Often people eat to numb their emotions, especially sugary sweets as sweet taste is instantly comforting. This is nothing but a distraction to suppress certain emotions which result in totally overloading your digestive system. Again when you eat out of sadness, anxiety or boredom, your body is caught up in the emotions and not focussing on digesting food, which leads to ‘Ama’ the digestive toxin.
But it is so much more than just that. 'Your body needs to process emotions just the way it needs to process food and that takes time'. Most emotional states cause you to secrete stress hormones activating your sympathetic system shifts your body in the fight- flight- freeze mode. This takes away from your 'rest-digest' parasympathetic system. So again you barely secrete digestive enzymes and the food you eat makes you feel bloated, gaseous, and really uncomfortable.
#3 DRINKING TOO MUCH WATER IMMEDIATELY BEFORE OR AFTER MEALS.
This is the biggest weight-loss myth I have seen in my practice as an Ayurvedic doctor. If you think it is a good idea to chug a few glasses of water just before your meals to fill up, eat less and effortlessly lose weight, you need to think again. I have encountered so many 'weight loss gurus', who advise their clients to drink at least 2 glasses of water before they eat anything, which is the ‘worst’ thing you could do to your digestion. Too much water can easily dilute your digestive juices....just like when in your grade 8 chemistry class where you learnt to dilute an acid by adding water.
#4 EATING WHILE MULTITASKING
Let me get something straight to you…Multi-tasking is a myth. It just means that you are taking the same amount of time to do many things at once, often inefficiently, than choosing to do one thing at a time with all the focus and efficiency, In today's world, this is a sad reality for many busy women, men and alike.
Older men and women who lead a hectic life, working, attending client calls, dropping kids to school, getting to the gym while grabbing a quick meal; whereas some kids just cannot simply sit and eat without being glued to the idiot box. Eating on the go is a terrible habit for anyone and everyone and is another reason that leaves your digestion compromised you’re your brain doesn’t is still focussed on reading emails, how the heck will it know that you are eating and need to secrete digestive enzymes??
#5 NOT EATING ACCORDING TO YOUR DOSHA TYPE
Last but not the least, eating against your dosha type
Dosha type? What the heck is that?
Well there are five main elements that make up the universe also your body- Akash or space, Vayu or air, Agni or fire, Ap or water and Prithvi or earth. These five elements combine to form 3 biological energies within your body known as the doshas - Vata, Pitta and Kapha. These doshas govern our physical, mental, emotional states as well as behaviour. Your health, happiness and longevity depend on the balance of these doshas, which are affected by foods, dietary habits, lifestyle, as thoughts that you think. Since these impact you in each and every aspect of your life, considering them when you choose your diet and nutrition is of utmost importance. This is the reason why some people cannot handle cold foods at all, and some react to dairy. If you have a diet that is not compatible with the dominant doshas in your body or your dosha type, it sets you up for digestive imbalances as well as different health issues.
So take some time to see which of the above habits are the main reason your digestion is suffering and feel free to share with someone who needs this information.
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Here is a list of the 5 common poor dietary habits I have seen people follow that totally wreck their digestion
#1 EATING WHEN NOT HUNGRY
Hunger is the biggest cue that your body needs nourishment. Hunger is also a sign that your Jatharagni or digestive fire is stroked and working well. Have you ever wondered whether you eat because you are hungry or just because the clock tells you that it’s the time to eat?
I have seen so many people focus on eating at fixed times that they totally forget to check in with their body whether it feels hunger or not.
Eating when not hungry is the no 1 cause indigestion. Eating when not hungry means that brain has not received any signals from your stomach to secrete any digestive juices to carry out digestion and hence your stomach is ill-prepared for the food that’s being stuffed into it. If your stomach is not going to secret sufficient digestive juice, how can you digest the food that you are eating? In Ayurvedic medicine, this semi-digested or undigested product of digestion is known as ‘Ama’ and is circulated through your body serving as undigested toxin, creating inflammation in your body further causing allergies, stiffness, joint pain, as well as weight gain.
#2 EATING TO NUMB YOUR EMOTIONS
Is there someone who doesn’t eat emotionally…the answer is probably a few in a million. Today’s fast track life where people barely have time for anything, how can they find time to feel their emotions. Sometimes emotions like sadness, worry, loneliness, anxiety are harder to understand and process, as people don’t even know they are going through it for the lack of mindfulness. So the quick solution is food.
Today people turn to food for entertainment, comfort, stress relief, or as a reward rather than to nourish their body and mind. Often people eat to numb their emotions, especially sugary sweets as sweet taste is instantly comforting. This is nothing but a distraction to suppress certain emotions which result in totally overloading your digestive system. Again when you eat out of sadness, anxiety or boredom, your body is caught up in the emotions and not focussing on digesting food, which leads to ‘Ama’ the digestive toxin.
But it is so much more than just that. 'Your body needs to process emotions just the way it needs to process food and that takes time'. Most emotional states cause you to secrete stress hormones activating your sympathetic system shifts your body in the fight- flight- freeze mode. This takes away from your 'rest-digest' parasympathetic system. So again you barely secrete digestive enzymes and the food you eat makes you feel bloated, gaseous, and really uncomfortable.
#3 DRINKING TOO MUCH WATER IMMEDIATELY BEFORE OR AFTER MEALS.
This is the biggest weight-loss myth I have seen in my practice as an Ayurvedic doctor. If you think it is a good idea to chug a few glasses of water just before your meals to fill up, eat less and effortlessly lose weight, you need to think again. I have encountered so many 'weight loss gurus', who advise their clients to drink at least 2 glasses of water before they eat anything, which is the ‘worst’ thing you could do to your digestion. Too much water can easily dilute your digestive juices....just like when in your grade 8 chemistry class where you learnt to dilute an acid by adding water.
#4 EATING WHILE MULTITASKING
Let me get something straight to you…Multi-tasking is a myth. It just means that you are taking the same amount of time to do many things at once, often inefficiently, than choosing to do one thing at a time with all the focus and efficiency, In today's world, this is a sad reality for many busy women, men and alike.
Older men and women who lead a hectic life, working, attending client calls, dropping kids to school, getting to the gym while grabbing a quick meal; whereas some kids just cannot simply sit and eat without being glued to the idiot box. Eating on the go is a terrible habit for anyone and everyone and is another reason that leaves your digestion compromised you’re your brain doesn’t is still focussed on reading emails, how the heck will it know that you are eating and need to secrete digestive enzymes??
#5 NOT EATING ACCORDING TO YOUR DOSHA TYPE
Last but not the least, eating against your dosha type
Dosha type? What the heck is that?
Well there are five main elements that make up the universe also your body- Akash or space, Vayu or air, Agni or fire, Ap or water and Prithvi or earth. These five elements combine to form 3 biological energies within your body known as the doshas - Vata, Pitta and Kapha. These doshas govern our physical, mental, emotional states as well as behaviour. Your health, happiness and longevity depend on the balance of these doshas, which are affected by foods, dietary habits, lifestyle, as thoughts that you think. Since these impact you in each and every aspect of your life, considering them when you choose your diet and nutrition is of utmost importance. This is the reason why some people cannot handle cold foods at all, and some react to dairy. If you have a diet that is not compatible with the dominant doshas in your body or your dosha type, it sets you up for digestive imbalances as well as different health issues.
So take some time to see which of the above habits are the main reason your digestion is suffering and feel free to share with someone who needs this information.
2023.06.05 13:24 Lunatic1422 Someone is upsetti spaghetti
 | Idk why I find this so hilarious. What really does it for me though is the little ":)" at the end as of the lad wasn't fuming that someone poked fun at a literal life altering addiction. submitted by Lunatic1422 to teenagers [link] [comments] |
2023.06.05 13:24 Frank1533d Is Security+ what I need?
I'm Network+ certified and was thinking of doing Security+. I looked at the subjects covered and found many of the subjects are useless theoretical stuff. What I want is just the more hands-on "practical" knowledge I'd benefit from as a computer technician. I fix all kinds of computer issues and hardware: Windows and Macs, home IoT, etc, I do remote sessions to fix issues for home and small-business issues, etc.
I thought the best would be to just study some of the Security+ chapters that show the most practical stuff with CBTnuggets or similar. I wonder if there's any other practical learning path I may take. I don't even need the Security+ certification, I just want to learn.
Any recommendation much appreciated.
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I thought the best would be to just study some of the Security+ chapters that show the most practical stuff with CBTnuggets or similar. I wonder if there's any other practical learning path I may take. I don't even need the Security+ certification, I just want to learn.
Any recommendation much appreciated.
2023.06.05 13:23 MixSouthern5845 HELPPPP I NEED SALES ADVICE SOLAR AUSTRALIA
Hey guys,
I am currently working in sales at a solar company in Australia.
Bit of background about me - 21 year old - passionate about the sales industry, worked in realestate fresh 18, started my own door to door car cleaning business.
I’ve been working for this company for a year now just self generating door to door residential leads and closing my own appointments in between.
In the company there is sole closers and sole lead generators.
I am the only person doing both jobs.
In the last 11 months I have closed and installed a gross of $922650.09 for the company.
I finished second best in company sitting 1/4th of the amount of appointments as the sole closers.
It’s starting to become very unmanageable having to do both jobs at once while managing my personal client base, following up and seeking referrals.
I’m definitely not complaining, I love the work however I’m starting to feel as if I could be making more money if I was just closing.
Do you guys think I’m in the position to ask to transition to just closing?
I will 100% be asking regardless of what you guys say.
How do I go about building value to influence his decision to make me solely a closer and hire a team of lead generators for me?
I was going to handle it as if I was selling solar.
Showing my boss that there’s a problem - my time management is becoming harder everyday, and I’m the only person having to do both jobs.
Providing a case study - my results compared to the sole closers
Providing a cognitive bias based solution - it’s going to benefit the company and myself because I strongly believe my skill set is stronger in closing then creating curiosity.
And finally asking for the sale - asking what I need to do, what value I need to further provide to work a plan out with the company to transition into a sole closer.
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I am currently working in sales at a solar company in Australia.
Bit of background about me - 21 year old - passionate about the sales industry, worked in realestate fresh 18, started my own door to door car cleaning business.
I’ve been working for this company for a year now just self generating door to door residential leads and closing my own appointments in between.
In the company there is sole closers and sole lead generators.
I am the only person doing both jobs.
In the last 11 months I have closed and installed a gross of $922650.09 for the company.
I finished second best in company sitting 1/4th of the amount of appointments as the sole closers.
It’s starting to become very unmanageable having to do both jobs at once while managing my personal client base, following up and seeking referrals.
I’m definitely not complaining, I love the work however I’m starting to feel as if I could be making more money if I was just closing.
Do you guys think I’m in the position to ask to transition to just closing?
I will 100% be asking regardless of what you guys say.
How do I go about building value to influence his decision to make me solely a closer and hire a team of lead generators for me?
I was going to handle it as if I was selling solar.
Showing my boss that there’s a problem - my time management is becoming harder everyday, and I’m the only person having to do both jobs.
Providing a case study - my results compared to the sole closers
Providing a cognitive bias based solution - it’s going to benefit the company and myself because I strongly believe my skill set is stronger in closing then creating curiosity.
And finally asking for the sale - asking what I need to do, what value I need to further provide to work a plan out with the company to transition into a sole closer.
2023.06.05 13:22 Zentaurios Coinbase Futures Plans and Bitcoin Gas Fees Down - ZentaNews 6–5–2023
#ZentaNews #Coinbase #Bitcoin #Binance #DebtCeiling
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2023.06.05 13:21 fluffyorchid1 Asset ownership for visitor visa
Hi all,
I’m going to apply for a UK Visitor Visa to attend a class reunion event. I have a ticket to the event, I should be receiving an invitation letter as well (just an invitation, no sponsorship). I will also provide a letter of good standing from the bank stating my account balances that total ~8k €. My passports have proof of extensive travel, the past UK student visa and two US visas.
However, reading this sub and hearing that the approvals are more stringent nowadays I reckon I should also provide some proof that I intend to return to my country. I work in IT full time for a US company as an hourly contractor and I could provide list of payments received via the payment platform (think along the lines of Paypal, Wise) as proof of earnings/regular income.
Trouble is that I don’t know that this will prove my ties to my home country due to the nature of the contract.
I do however own an apartment I purchased at the end of 2022. So, my question is if providing a translated copy of the deed is sufficient proof that I intend to return to my country? I’d like to avoid the payment slip route as I don’t want to give an impression of a digital nomad that will do his business from UK.
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I’m going to apply for a UK Visitor Visa to attend a class reunion event. I have a ticket to the event, I should be receiving an invitation letter as well (just an invitation, no sponsorship). I will also provide a letter of good standing from the bank stating my account balances that total ~8k €. My passports have proof of extensive travel, the past UK student visa and two US visas.
However, reading this sub and hearing that the approvals are more stringent nowadays I reckon I should also provide some proof that I intend to return to my country. I work in IT full time for a US company as an hourly contractor and I could provide list of payments received via the payment platform (think along the lines of Paypal, Wise) as proof of earnings/regular income.
Trouble is that I don’t know that this will prove my ties to my home country due to the nature of the contract.
I do however own an apartment I purchased at the end of 2022. So, my question is if providing a translated copy of the deed is sufficient proof that I intend to return to my country? I’d like to avoid the payment slip route as I don’t want to give an impression of a digital nomad that will do his business from UK.
2023.06.05 13:20 i_love_pickle 21 [F4R] Europen Time, Wanna Meet New People
Hey!
I am an engineering student mainly focused in earthquake/structure engineering. I like to work out (not a newbie), play video games and spend time with friends. I have a friend group and my close friends have been around for at least 4 years, but I am in need of some new faces. Because I am too busy with studying/working, I wasn’t able to socialise as much this year.
I am looking for some new friends (not more than a friendship). I am down for exchanging socials.
Before you decide to hit me up: I am a bit of a traditionalist. I don’t believe in all that SJW stuff. I care about how people look, I think it associates with how beautiful they are in the inside. I don’t have time to be a psychologist. Please contact me if you have a good mental health.
If you’ve made this far and still not think I’m a beast, don’t hesitate to contact!
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I am an engineering student mainly focused in earthquake/structure engineering. I like to work out (not a newbie), play video games and spend time with friends. I have a friend group and my close friends have been around for at least 4 years, but I am in need of some new faces. Because I am too busy with studying/working, I wasn’t able to socialise as much this year.
I am looking for some new friends (not more than a friendship). I am down for exchanging socials.
Before you decide to hit me up: I am a bit of a traditionalist. I don’t believe in all that SJW stuff. I care about how people look, I think it associates with how beautiful they are in the inside. I don’t have time to be a psychologist. Please contact me if you have a good mental health.
If you’ve made this far and still not think I’m a beast, don’t hesitate to contact!
2023.06.05 13:20 Quacklyyy Top 250 Streamer Cheating - Coeyo15
Hey guys,
A couple of months ago a twitch streamer by the name Coeyo15 and his team managed to get a nuke in our lobby. This wouldn't be much of a surprise aside from the fact that after 2 of us died to him we turned on his stream and saw him plant + hold the bomb completely solo, vs 2 LTV teams circling the bomb.
Coeyo15 managed to stay alive and solo nuke the lobby, impressive! Here's the clip of the bomb exploding: https://www.tiktok.com/@coeyo15/video/7225595396339305735 (this is only the ending, but while it doesn't offer much, if you slow down the initial fight you'll see him insta following someone on the jumpshot with his weapon, almost like aimassist/aimbot, except he plays on KnM)
Upon investigating his most viewed clips, it's pretty clear he's someone who's been cheating for the past 6 months. Wallhack, aimbots, recoil control... He has them all.
After analyzing his most viewed clips there are clear examples of this cheating:
- The "least" problematic cheat, abusing the infinite lethals: https://www.twitch.tv/coeyo15/clip/SassyBadWoodcockNerfBlueBlaster-mEZTUfKJPeCr-DpL?filter=clips&range=30d&sort=time
- Just today, blatant wallhack with preaim + prefire with no info: https://www.twitch.tv/coeyo15/clip/ColdReliableSashimiMoreCowbell-Vgbq8W-JamNab3lE?filter=clips&range=30d&sort=time
- Perfect prefire - https://www.twitch.tv/coeyo15/clip/MoistDifficultSproutSoonerLater-W4fTLMpAK6xDrKb2?filter=clips&range=all&sort=time
- Sniper 5 piece with perfect centering in each kill (notice how he has no info and advanced uav in his pocket and doesn't need it) - https://www.twitch.tv/coeyo15/clip/BusyThankfulGrasshopperCorgiDerp-YR3Qd_E0glmmxi_z?filter=clips&range=all&sort=time
- I'll just let fifakill react to this one for me - https://www.twitch.tv/fifakillvizualz/clip/PiercingReliableBunnyBrokeBack-7GSmDSm_DET2kPIG?filter=clips&range=24hr&sort=time
- 150m perfect recoil control on cronen silenced (notice how he misses after the player is downed, which is a recurrent occurence when watching his stream)- https://www.twitch.tv/coeyo15/clip/SpunkyBadOryxTF2John-V664-MSG5czOA6Ie?filter=clips&range=all&sort=time
- Perfect centering in kill #1 and 2nd kill is pretty self explanatory, if you slow it down to 0.25x you can't even see the 2nd guy and he instantly locks onto him - https://www.twitch.tv/coeyo15/clip/EagerCrazyGoatTBTacoLeft--L-EfXH9g-Xu2svU?filter=clips&range=all&sort=time
- For the man(or woman) of culture... "ALL BOMB" - https://www.twitch.tv/coeyo15/clip/TrappedBlushingConsoleVoHiYo-o_xtBIlF5hklUgrY?filter=clips&range=all&sort=time
Additionally, this guy also plays with other guys blatantly cheating, at least 3 or 4 different guys that i have seen in the past few weeks, but only got POV highlights from 2:
JHD: https://www.twitch.tv/fifakillvizualz/clip/ObservantPowerfulDumplingsTriHard-cIFv5znWyuEuOLAc?filter=clips&range=24hr&sort=time
User22631649: https://clips.twitch.tv/WrongSpinelessSnakeHumbleLife-kS9Z3ItAqOfxIUL3
But don't just take my word for it, just in the past 24 hours some of the best warzone 2 players getting killed in ranked by this guy's team while cheating.
Fifakill/ OEKIY / Abwizz:https://www.twitch.tv/fifakillvizualz/clip/StrangeAntsyHamsterStoneLightning-3jfl0cFWpL9UjFOZ?filter=clips&range=24hr&sort=time
Lenun: https://clips.twitch.tv/WrongSpinelessSnakeHumbleLife-kS9Z3ItAqOfxIUL3 (repeated from above, but you get the point)
Badboybeaman: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJZJUXDd00k
To conclude, this is probably the most blatant cheater i've ever seen, everytime i see one of his streams i see him perfectly centering everyone behind wall, controlling cronen's recoil perfectly from 100m + (missing literally 0 bullets) and locking onto targets while on KnM (so no aim assist to excuse). All of this is amplified when he plants a nuke, it seems like he gets superpowers!
I'm pretty sure this post won't do anything in regards to making our game fairer and cheater free, but i just wanted to share this with you all, there are streamers/players that have played this game for the past 6 months with cheats, have got 70+ nukes and currently swarming top 50 in ranked, using not only wallhack but aimbot as well and not getting banned in either twitch or warzone 2 all while gaining money off of this.
Please activision, at least enforce manual bans on these people, even if they can't ban all cheat providers or get a working anticheat, at least these players shouldn't be able to stream freely while cheating blatantly.
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A couple of months ago a twitch streamer by the name Coeyo15 and his team managed to get a nuke in our lobby. This wouldn't be much of a surprise aside from the fact that after 2 of us died to him we turned on his stream and saw him plant + hold the bomb completely solo, vs 2 LTV teams circling the bomb.
Coeyo15 managed to stay alive and solo nuke the lobby, impressive! Here's the clip of the bomb exploding: https://www.tiktok.com/@coeyo15/video/7225595396339305735 (this is only the ending, but while it doesn't offer much, if you slow down the initial fight you'll see him insta following someone on the jumpshot with his weapon, almost like aimassist/aimbot, except he plays on KnM)
Upon investigating his most viewed clips, it's pretty clear he's someone who's been cheating for the past 6 months. Wallhack, aimbots, recoil control... He has them all.
After analyzing his most viewed clips there are clear examples of this cheating:
- The "least" problematic cheat, abusing the infinite lethals: https://www.twitch.tv/coeyo15/clip/SassyBadWoodcockNerfBlueBlaster-mEZTUfKJPeCr-DpL?filter=clips&range=30d&sort=time
- Just today, blatant wallhack with preaim + prefire with no info: https://www.twitch.tv/coeyo15/clip/ColdReliableSashimiMoreCowbell-Vgbq8W-JamNab3lE?filter=clips&range=30d&sort=time
- Perfect prefire - https://www.twitch.tv/coeyo15/clip/MoistDifficultSproutSoonerLater-W4fTLMpAK6xDrKb2?filter=clips&range=all&sort=time
- Sniper 5 piece with perfect centering in each kill (notice how he has no info and advanced uav in his pocket and doesn't need it) - https://www.twitch.tv/coeyo15/clip/BusyThankfulGrasshopperCorgiDerp-YR3Qd_E0glmmxi_z?filter=clips&range=all&sort=time
- I'll just let fifakill react to this one for me - https://www.twitch.tv/fifakillvizualz/clip/PiercingReliableBunnyBrokeBack-7GSmDSm_DET2kPIG?filter=clips&range=24hr&sort=time
- 150m perfect recoil control on cronen silenced (notice how he misses after the player is downed, which is a recurrent occurence when watching his stream)- https://www.twitch.tv/coeyo15/clip/SpunkyBadOryxTF2John-V664-MSG5czOA6Ie?filter=clips&range=all&sort=time
- Perfect centering in kill #1 and 2nd kill is pretty self explanatory, if you slow it down to 0.25x you can't even see the 2nd guy and he instantly locks onto him - https://www.twitch.tv/coeyo15/clip/EagerCrazyGoatTBTacoLeft--L-EfXH9g-Xu2svU?filter=clips&range=all&sort=time
- For the man(or woman) of culture... "ALL BOMB" - https://www.twitch.tv/coeyo15/clip/TrappedBlushingConsoleVoHiYo-o_xtBIlF5hklUgrY?filter=clips&range=all&sort=time
Additionally, this guy also plays with other guys blatantly cheating, at least 3 or 4 different guys that i have seen in the past few weeks, but only got POV highlights from 2:
JHD: https://www.twitch.tv/fifakillvizualz/clip/ObservantPowerfulDumplingsTriHard-cIFv5znWyuEuOLAc?filter=clips&range=24hr&sort=time
User22631649: https://clips.twitch.tv/WrongSpinelessSnakeHumbleLife-kS9Z3ItAqOfxIUL3
But don't just take my word for it, just in the past 24 hours some of the best warzone 2 players getting killed in ranked by this guy's team while cheating.
Fifakill/ OEKIY / Abwizz:https://www.twitch.tv/fifakillvizualz/clip/StrangeAntsyHamsterStoneLightning-3jfl0cFWpL9UjFOZ?filter=clips&range=24hr&sort=time
Lenun: https://clips.twitch.tv/WrongSpinelessSnakeHumbleLife-kS9Z3ItAqOfxIUL3 (repeated from above, but you get the point)
Badboybeaman: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJZJUXDd00k
To conclude, this is probably the most blatant cheater i've ever seen, everytime i see one of his streams i see him perfectly centering everyone behind wall, controlling cronen's recoil perfectly from 100m + (missing literally 0 bullets) and locking onto targets while on KnM (so no aim assist to excuse). All of this is amplified when he plants a nuke, it seems like he gets superpowers!
I'm pretty sure this post won't do anything in regards to making our game fairer and cheater free, but i just wanted to share this with you all, there are streamers/players that have played this game for the past 6 months with cheats, have got 70+ nukes and currently swarming top 50 in ranked, using not only wallhack but aimbot as well and not getting banned in either twitch or warzone 2 all while gaining money off of this.
Please activision, at least enforce manual bans on these people, even if they can't ban all cheat providers or get a working anticheat, at least these players shouldn't be able to stream freely while cheating blatantly.
2023.06.05 13:20 FremantleDocker Advice for how I (M25) could have handled (f28) better
The thought of her being with someone else is driving me insane, but at the same time it was the right decision to break up. It is so fucking frustrating!
She was my main emotional support, almost all of my happiness & my closest friend. I'm so angry at myself for letting myself rely on her so much when there was so much uncertainty surrounding our relationship. I just thought I got strong enough to deal with it.
There was a time in the relationship when she said that if we fall in love she'll stay in Melbourne. There was a time when she was applying to jobs in Melbourne as a reason to stay, she was definitely looking at staying & I clung to that. We even briefly talked about doing some travelling together. It made it harder when she left. I do feel like I've been messed around a bit & I turned into an inconvenience to her. She knew how much I wanted her to stay, even though I never asked her to. She said it felt like there was a lot of pressure on her, which I do understand. She never meant to fall in love either. But I feel we could have come up with some kind of plan, but she couldn't. She is just kind of winging it.
I understand she was following her dreams & I do truly hope she has a lovely time, but it just felt like I was not being considered in any future plans. There was absolutely no certainty in any aspect of the relationship outside of us being in love.
We started as housemates & kissed about a week in, I knew I was going to fall for her as soon as I went back into my room. The next day I realised how messy the situation would be: were housemates so the fallout could be terrible, her brother is also living with us, she is planning on leaving, I have doubts of how I'll handle heartbreak etc. So I tried to call it off, she convinced me that it was a good idea so we continued.
Then, and this is where I really mess up, a few weeks later the fears come back. After spending every single night together in the same bed I think I'm starting to fall in love with her & I tell her this is a bad idea and I can't to it. She kicks me out of bed & I go for a walk. I realise that I've made a mistake & that I don't care if it's going to hurt, that I do love her & have not stopped thinking about her since that first kiss. I plead my case & she took me back that night, obviously still a bit upset with me.
The next four months spent living with her have been the best of my life. Romantic weekends away, going out together, cooking & cleaning up together, sleeping together, doing almost everything together. I can confidently say that I was a lovely boyfriend in this time, I would regularly buy her flowers, gifts, send her poetry and let her know how much special she is to me. She was equally as wonderfully lovely too, I had never experienced love like she gave me.
Then I'm at work & I get a text saying work approved of her transfer. We had talked about this & in my mind I knew it was coming but my heart still believed she would stay. This brought up a lot of abandonment issues & I took them out on her. I was moody, visibly upset that she was leaving & distant. That said, I did find out my little sister has just tried to kill herself in this time so there was probably a bit of that going on too. But this all just made her feel extra pressure, something she did tell me she struggles with. I do wish I could have kept it together for her.
After I found out she was going I asked our friend to convince me not to break up with her as I couldn't see how we would work with all of the uncertainties. She had no plan of her travels, and was completely honest about not being able to give me any kind of certainty for the indefinite future. He said he couldn't see the romance in it & that it was the right thing to do. I didn't accept that & called up my little sister, she said the same thing and then told me shes in hospital. During the next few days I am a bad boyfriend: cold, distant and moody. I felt so guilty about thinking about breaking up with her, some of the childhood issues resurface, little sister & I don't cope. I finally find a friend who has been in a long distance relationship, giving me hope & I use that. I tell my girlfriend in bed that I was thinking about breaking up with her & she's furious, she's angry at me for how I treated her during this time & says she feels insecure in the relationship. I do my best to make it up to her, show up at her work with a rose, even tell her some details of my mother leaving when I was a kid in hopes for her to understand why I'm struggling. We make up, have a nice few days & then she leaves.
3 weeks of long distance were tough. I'm clingy and she's busy. We have small arguments, she feels pressured by me. Her reception is problematic, stressed with the travels, living situation, work etc. We barely talk. We call maybe 5 times in this time period, all requiring my to stay up until 12-4am for a 10 minute phone call. She's tired from all the stress. This all makes me feel very insecure in the relationship & I tell her how I feel and ask her to please send me a picture of her every day & let's try and organise a time we can call eachother. She doesn't send a picture more often than she does & she can't help organise a time to call. This eventually leads to me asking her to promise me that she's not going to break up with me when I next see her, which is in a short time. I had organised a flight to see my sister once she was out of hospital & my gf was also in the same area. When I ask her to promise me she freaks, saying how much pressure she feels. When I tell her I'm coming soon she freaks, saying she doesn't need someone following her around Australia- I tell her that broke my heart & have to explain that I'm going over for my suicidal sibling, and I do hope to see her too.
She stays with me when I fly over at my childhood home, we have a decent few days but I can't help be angry with her. I'm overwhelmed with being back at home again, worried about my little sister & frustrated with myself & her with how the last month has unfolded. I give some stupid input into her relationship with her brother which wasn't my business & comes off as snobby. She's angry again & we have a bad day. We go out that night & I snap at her while drunk, we raise our voices a bit & don't talk much for the next hour. Hours up & I sit down to apologise, saying how stressful this all is for me & then I misunderstand what she says- I thought she was taking the piss about how I can't look after my siblings. I storm off & leave her & her 24yo brother in town on their own, requiring them to get a taxi back to my place. She explains that I took her words incorrectly & I try to apologise as much as possible. Next few days are bad & I decide that this isn't working, that we are barely in a relationship & that won't change for the indefinite future. That I'm at a point in my life where I need to focus on myself & that this isn't fair on either of us. I once again try to get some kind of certainty of when I'll see her again and she can't give me one, saying she now wants to live in as many countries as she can before 30 & that she can't promise she'll be in the country at the end of the year. I tell her I can't do this anymore. We end amicably, have a reasonably nice last few days & she provides hope for the future.
We continue to text as regularly as the 3 weeks apart & I have a bad day a week and a half in. I make a Reddit post listing all of the bad things I did in the relationship, saying how I regret breaking up & then I beg her to take me back over text. She has none of it, reminding me that I've broken us up so many times before & that I can't act like this. I'm still acting clingy to this day, I just can't find a way to deal with this. A lot of my childhood stuff has come back during this time & it's tough.
I just don't know how to deal with this. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Any opinions of how I handled it?
TLDR: struggling to deal with heartbreak of a 5 month relationship & need some input into what could have done differently, thanks xxx
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She was my main emotional support, almost all of my happiness & my closest friend. I'm so angry at myself for letting myself rely on her so much when there was so much uncertainty surrounding our relationship. I just thought I got strong enough to deal with it.
There was a time in the relationship when she said that if we fall in love she'll stay in Melbourne. There was a time when she was applying to jobs in Melbourne as a reason to stay, she was definitely looking at staying & I clung to that. We even briefly talked about doing some travelling together. It made it harder when she left. I do feel like I've been messed around a bit & I turned into an inconvenience to her. She knew how much I wanted her to stay, even though I never asked her to. She said it felt like there was a lot of pressure on her, which I do understand. She never meant to fall in love either. But I feel we could have come up with some kind of plan, but she couldn't. She is just kind of winging it.
I understand she was following her dreams & I do truly hope she has a lovely time, but it just felt like I was not being considered in any future plans. There was absolutely no certainty in any aspect of the relationship outside of us being in love.
We started as housemates & kissed about a week in, I knew I was going to fall for her as soon as I went back into my room. The next day I realised how messy the situation would be: were housemates so the fallout could be terrible, her brother is also living with us, she is planning on leaving, I have doubts of how I'll handle heartbreak etc. So I tried to call it off, she convinced me that it was a good idea so we continued.
Then, and this is where I really mess up, a few weeks later the fears come back. After spending every single night together in the same bed I think I'm starting to fall in love with her & I tell her this is a bad idea and I can't to it. She kicks me out of bed & I go for a walk. I realise that I've made a mistake & that I don't care if it's going to hurt, that I do love her & have not stopped thinking about her since that first kiss. I plead my case & she took me back that night, obviously still a bit upset with me.
The next four months spent living with her have been the best of my life. Romantic weekends away, going out together, cooking & cleaning up together, sleeping together, doing almost everything together. I can confidently say that I was a lovely boyfriend in this time, I would regularly buy her flowers, gifts, send her poetry and let her know how much special she is to me. She was equally as wonderfully lovely too, I had never experienced love like she gave me.
Then I'm at work & I get a text saying work approved of her transfer. We had talked about this & in my mind I knew it was coming but my heart still believed she would stay. This brought up a lot of abandonment issues & I took them out on her. I was moody, visibly upset that she was leaving & distant. That said, I did find out my little sister has just tried to kill herself in this time so there was probably a bit of that going on too. But this all just made her feel extra pressure, something she did tell me she struggles with. I do wish I could have kept it together for her.
After I found out she was going I asked our friend to convince me not to break up with her as I couldn't see how we would work with all of the uncertainties. She had no plan of her travels, and was completely honest about not being able to give me any kind of certainty for the indefinite future. He said he couldn't see the romance in it & that it was the right thing to do. I didn't accept that & called up my little sister, she said the same thing and then told me shes in hospital. During the next few days I am a bad boyfriend: cold, distant and moody. I felt so guilty about thinking about breaking up with her, some of the childhood issues resurface, little sister & I don't cope. I finally find a friend who has been in a long distance relationship, giving me hope & I use that. I tell my girlfriend in bed that I was thinking about breaking up with her & she's furious, she's angry at me for how I treated her during this time & says she feels insecure in the relationship. I do my best to make it up to her, show up at her work with a rose, even tell her some details of my mother leaving when I was a kid in hopes for her to understand why I'm struggling. We make up, have a nice few days & then she leaves.
3 weeks of long distance were tough. I'm clingy and she's busy. We have small arguments, she feels pressured by me. Her reception is problematic, stressed with the travels, living situation, work etc. We barely talk. We call maybe 5 times in this time period, all requiring my to stay up until 12-4am for a 10 minute phone call. She's tired from all the stress. This all makes me feel very insecure in the relationship & I tell her how I feel and ask her to please send me a picture of her every day & let's try and organise a time we can call eachother. She doesn't send a picture more often than she does & she can't help organise a time to call. This eventually leads to me asking her to promise me that she's not going to break up with me when I next see her, which is in a short time. I had organised a flight to see my sister once she was out of hospital & my gf was also in the same area. When I ask her to promise me she freaks, saying how much pressure she feels. When I tell her I'm coming soon she freaks, saying she doesn't need someone following her around Australia- I tell her that broke my heart & have to explain that I'm going over for my suicidal sibling, and I do hope to see her too.
She stays with me when I fly over at my childhood home, we have a decent few days but I can't help be angry with her. I'm overwhelmed with being back at home again, worried about my little sister & frustrated with myself & her with how the last month has unfolded. I give some stupid input into her relationship with her brother which wasn't my business & comes off as snobby. She's angry again & we have a bad day. We go out that night & I snap at her while drunk, we raise our voices a bit & don't talk much for the next hour. Hours up & I sit down to apologise, saying how stressful this all is for me & then I misunderstand what she says- I thought she was taking the piss about how I can't look after my siblings. I storm off & leave her & her 24yo brother in town on their own, requiring them to get a taxi back to my place. She explains that I took her words incorrectly & I try to apologise as much as possible. Next few days are bad & I decide that this isn't working, that we are barely in a relationship & that won't change for the indefinite future. That I'm at a point in my life where I need to focus on myself & that this isn't fair on either of us. I once again try to get some kind of certainty of when I'll see her again and she can't give me one, saying she now wants to live in as many countries as she can before 30 & that she can't promise she'll be in the country at the end of the year. I tell her I can't do this anymore. We end amicably, have a reasonably nice last few days & she provides hope for the future.
We continue to text as regularly as the 3 weeks apart & I have a bad day a week and a half in. I make a Reddit post listing all of the bad things I did in the relationship, saying how I regret breaking up & then I beg her to take me back over text. She has none of it, reminding me that I've broken us up so many times before & that I can't act like this. I'm still acting clingy to this day, I just can't find a way to deal with this. A lot of my childhood stuff has come back during this time & it's tough.
I just don't know how to deal with this. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Any opinions of how I handled it?
TLDR: struggling to deal with heartbreak of a 5 month relationship & need some input into what could have done differently, thanks xxx
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2023.06.05 13:15 FremantleDocker Advice for how I (M25) could have handled (f28) better
It's my first love & my first heartbreak, wishing I could be the person I am but just can't be right now. I am still terrified of losing her and she's not even here. The thought of her being with someone else is driving me insane, but at the same time it was the right decision to break up. It is so fucking frustrating!
She was my main emotional support, almost all of my happiness & my closest friend. I'm so angry at myself for letting myself rely on her so much when there was so much uncertainty surrounding our relationship. I just thought I got strong enough to deal with it.
There was a time in the relationship when she said that if we fall in love she'll stay in Melbourne. There was a time when she was applying to jobs in Melbourne as a reason to stay, she was definitely looking at staying & I clung to that. We even briefly talked about doing some travelling together. It made it harder when she left. I do feel like I've been messed around a bit & I turned into an inconvenience to her. She knew how much I wanted her to stay, even though I never asked her to. She said it felt like there was a lot of pressure on her, which I do understand. She never meant to fall in love either. But I feel we could have come up with some kind of plan, but she couldn't. She is just kind of winging it.
I understand she was following her dreams & I do truly hope she has a lovely time, but it just felt like I was not being considered in any future plans. There was absolutely no certainty in any aspect of the relationship outside of us being in love.
We started as housemates & kissed about a week in, I knew I was going to fall for her as soon as I went back into my room. The next day I realised how messy the situation would be: were housemates so the fallout could be terrible, her brother is also living with us, she is planning on leaving, I have doubts of how I'll handle heartbreak etc. So I tried to call it off, she convinced me that it was a good idea so we continued.
Then, and this is where I really mess up, a few weeks later the fears come back. After spending every single night together in the same bed I think I'm starting to fall in love with her & I tell her this is a bad idea and I can't to it. She kicks me out of bed & I go for a walk. I realise that I've made a mistake & that I don't care if it's going to hurt, that I do love her & have not stopped thinking about her since that first kiss. I plead my case & she took me back that night, obviously still a bit upset with me.
The next four months spent living with her have been the best of my life. Romantic weekends away, going out together, cooking & cleaning up together, sleeping together, doing almost everything together. I can confidently say that I was a lovely boyfriend in this time, I would regularly buy her flowers, gifts, send her poetry and let her know how much special she is to me. She was equally as wonderfully lovely too, I had never experienced love like she gave me.
Then I'm at work & I get a text saying work approved of her transfer. We had talked about this & in my mind I knew it was coming but my heart still believed she would stay. This brought up a lot of abandonment issues & I took them out on her. I was moody, visibly upset that she was leaving & distant. That said, I did find out my little sister has just tried to kill herself in this time so there was probably a bit of that going on too. But this all just made her feel extra pressure, something she did tell me she struggles with. I do wish I could have kept it together for her.
After I found out she was going I asked our friend to convince me not to break up with her as I couldn't see how we would work with all of the uncertainties. She had no plan of her travels, and was completely honest about not being able to give me any kind of certainty for the indefinite future. He said he couldn't see the romance in it & that it was the right thing to do. I didn't accept that & called up my little sister, she said the same thing and then told me shes in hospital. During the next few days I am a bad boyfriend: cold, distant and moody. I felt so guilty about thinking about breaking up with her, some of the childhood issues resurface, little sister & I don't cope. I finally find a friend who has been in a long distance relationship, giving me hope & I use that. I tell my girlfriend in bed that I was thinking about breaking up with her & she's furious, she's angry at me for how I treated her during this time & says she feels insecure in the relationship. I do my best to make it up to her, show up at her work with a rose, even tell her some details of my mother leaving when I was a kid in hopes for her to understand why I'm struggling. We make up, have a nice few days & then she leaves.
3 weeks of long distance were tough. I'm clingy and she's busy. We have small arguments, she feels pressured by me. Her reception is problematic, stressed with the travels, living situation, work etc. We barely talk. We call maybe 5 times in this time period, all requiring my to stay up until 12-4am for a 10 minute phone call. She's tired from all the stress. This all makes me feel very insecure in the relationship & I tell her how I feel and ask her to please send me a picture of her every day & let's try and organise a time we can call eachother. She doesn't send a picture more often than she does & she can't help organise a time to call. This eventually leads to me asking her to promise me that she's not going to break up with me when I next see her, which is in a short time. I had organised a flight to see my sister once she was out of hospital & my gf was also in the same area. When I ask her to promise me she freaks, saying how much pressure she feels. When I tell her I'm coming soon she freaks, saying she doesn't need someone following her around Australia- I tell her that broke my heart & have to explain that I'm going over for my suicidal sibling, and I do hope to see her too.
She stays with me when I fly over at my childhood home, we have a decent few days but I can't help be angry with her. I'm overwhelmed with being back at home again, worried about my little sister & frustrated with myself & her with how the last month has unfolded. I give some stupid input into her relationship with her brother which wasn't my business & comes off as snobby. She's angry again & we have a bad day. We go out that night & I snap at her while drunk, we raise our voices a bit & don't talk much for the next hour. Hours up & I sit down to apologise, saying how stressful this all is for me & then I misunderstand what she says- I thought she was taking the piss about how I can't look after my siblings. I storm off & leave her & her 24yo brother in town on their own, requiring them to get a taxi back to my place. She explains that I took her words incorrectly & I try to apologise as much as possible. Next few days are bad & I decide that this isn't working, that we are barely in a relationship & that won't change for the indefinite future. That I'm at a point in my life where I need to focus on myself & that this isn't fair on either of us. I once again try to get some kind of certainty of when I'll see her again and she can't give me one, saying she now wants to live in as many countries as she can before 30 & that she can't promise she'll be in the country at the end of the year. I tell her I can't do this anymore. We end amicably, have a reasonably nice last few days & she provides hope for the future.
We continue to text as regularly as the 3 weeks apart & I have a bad day a week and a half in. I make a Reddit post listing all of the bad things I did in the relationship, saying how I regret breaking up & then I beg her to take me back over text. She has none of it, reminding me that I've broken us up so many times before & that I can't act like this. I'm still acting clingy to this day, I just can't find a way to deal with this. A lot of my childhood stuff has come back during this time & it's tough.
I just don't know how to deal with this. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Any opinions of how I handled it?
TLDR: struggling to deal with heartbreak of a 5 month relationship & need some input into what could have done differently, thanks xxx
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She was my main emotional support, almost all of my happiness & my closest friend. I'm so angry at myself for letting myself rely on her so much when there was so much uncertainty surrounding our relationship. I just thought I got strong enough to deal with it.
There was a time in the relationship when she said that if we fall in love she'll stay in Melbourne. There was a time when she was applying to jobs in Melbourne as a reason to stay, she was definitely looking at staying & I clung to that. We even briefly talked about doing some travelling together. It made it harder when she left. I do feel like I've been messed around a bit & I turned into an inconvenience to her. She knew how much I wanted her to stay, even though I never asked her to. She said it felt like there was a lot of pressure on her, which I do understand. She never meant to fall in love either. But I feel we could have come up with some kind of plan, but she couldn't. She is just kind of winging it.
I understand she was following her dreams & I do truly hope she has a lovely time, but it just felt like I was not being considered in any future plans. There was absolutely no certainty in any aspect of the relationship outside of us being in love.
We started as housemates & kissed about a week in, I knew I was going to fall for her as soon as I went back into my room. The next day I realised how messy the situation would be: were housemates so the fallout could be terrible, her brother is also living with us, she is planning on leaving, I have doubts of how I'll handle heartbreak etc. So I tried to call it off, she convinced me that it was a good idea so we continued.
Then, and this is where I really mess up, a few weeks later the fears come back. After spending every single night together in the same bed I think I'm starting to fall in love with her & I tell her this is a bad idea and I can't to it. She kicks me out of bed & I go for a walk. I realise that I've made a mistake & that I don't care if it's going to hurt, that I do love her & have not stopped thinking about her since that first kiss. I plead my case & she took me back that night, obviously still a bit upset with me.
The next four months spent living with her have been the best of my life. Romantic weekends away, going out together, cooking & cleaning up together, sleeping together, doing almost everything together. I can confidently say that I was a lovely boyfriend in this time, I would regularly buy her flowers, gifts, send her poetry and let her know how much special she is to me. She was equally as wonderfully lovely too, I had never experienced love like she gave me.
Then I'm at work & I get a text saying work approved of her transfer. We had talked about this & in my mind I knew it was coming but my heart still believed she would stay. This brought up a lot of abandonment issues & I took them out on her. I was moody, visibly upset that she was leaving & distant. That said, I did find out my little sister has just tried to kill herself in this time so there was probably a bit of that going on too. But this all just made her feel extra pressure, something she did tell me she struggles with. I do wish I could have kept it together for her.
After I found out she was going I asked our friend to convince me not to break up with her as I couldn't see how we would work with all of the uncertainties. She had no plan of her travels, and was completely honest about not being able to give me any kind of certainty for the indefinite future. He said he couldn't see the romance in it & that it was the right thing to do. I didn't accept that & called up my little sister, she said the same thing and then told me shes in hospital. During the next few days I am a bad boyfriend: cold, distant and moody. I felt so guilty about thinking about breaking up with her, some of the childhood issues resurface, little sister & I don't cope. I finally find a friend who has been in a long distance relationship, giving me hope & I use that. I tell my girlfriend in bed that I was thinking about breaking up with her & she's furious, she's angry at me for how I treated her during this time & says she feels insecure in the relationship. I do my best to make it up to her, show up at her work with a rose, even tell her some details of my mother leaving when I was a kid in hopes for her to understand why I'm struggling. We make up, have a nice few days & then she leaves.
3 weeks of long distance were tough. I'm clingy and she's busy. We have small arguments, she feels pressured by me. Her reception is problematic, stressed with the travels, living situation, work etc. We barely talk. We call maybe 5 times in this time period, all requiring my to stay up until 12-4am for a 10 minute phone call. She's tired from all the stress. This all makes me feel very insecure in the relationship & I tell her how I feel and ask her to please send me a picture of her every day & let's try and organise a time we can call eachother. She doesn't send a picture more often than she does & she can't help organise a time to call. This eventually leads to me asking her to promise me that she's not going to break up with me when I next see her, which is in a short time. I had organised a flight to see my sister once she was out of hospital & my gf was also in the same area. When I ask her to promise me she freaks, saying how much pressure she feels. When I tell her I'm coming soon she freaks, saying she doesn't need someone following her around Australia- I tell her that broke my heart & have to explain that I'm going over for my suicidal sibling, and I do hope to see her too.
She stays with me when I fly over at my childhood home, we have a decent few days but I can't help be angry with her. I'm overwhelmed with being back at home again, worried about my little sister & frustrated with myself & her with how the last month has unfolded. I give some stupid input into her relationship with her brother which wasn't my business & comes off as snobby. She's angry again & we have a bad day. We go out that night & I snap at her while drunk, we raise our voices a bit & don't talk much for the next hour. Hours up & I sit down to apologise, saying how stressful this all is for me & then I misunderstand what she says- I thought she was taking the piss about how I can't look after my siblings. I storm off & leave her & her 24yo brother in town on their own, requiring them to get a taxi back to my place. She explains that I took her words incorrectly & I try to apologise as much as possible. Next few days are bad & I decide that this isn't working, that we are barely in a relationship & that won't change for the indefinite future. That I'm at a point in my life where I need to focus on myself & that this isn't fair on either of us. I once again try to get some kind of certainty of when I'll see her again and she can't give me one, saying she now wants to live in as many countries as she can before 30 & that she can't promise she'll be in the country at the end of the year. I tell her I can't do this anymore. We end amicably, have a reasonably nice last few days & she provides hope for the future.
We continue to text as regularly as the 3 weeks apart & I have a bad day a week and a half in. I make a Reddit post listing all of the bad things I did in the relationship, saying how I regret breaking up & then I beg her to take me back over text. She has none of it, reminding me that I've broken us up so many times before & that I can't act like this. I'm still acting clingy to this day, I just can't find a way to deal with this. A lot of my childhood stuff has come back during this time & it's tough.
I just don't know how to deal with this. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Any opinions of how I handled it?
TLDR: struggling to deal with heartbreak of a 5 month relationship & need some input into what could have done differently, thanks xxx
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2023.06.05 13:15 AutoModerator [Download Course] Chase Dimond – The Agency Acceleration Course (Genkicourses.site)
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2023.06.05 13:11 AnonamiBeing I’ll shall master this family is really Succession OI style.
I really couldn’t get into this manhwa simply because the family dynamics are so toxic, and the cause of it is seen as a good man because OI.
From my perspective, the Lombardi family is really similar to the Roys in Succession.
Lord Lormbardi (Grandpa) is just like Logan, creating unhealthy sibling and cousin rivalries amongst his children and grandchildren, consistently “testing” his kids with different business opportunities and responsibilities (the fabric business for example). He neglected and allowed Tia and her dad to be abused by the rest of the family because they were too weak, which was also heightened by the competition he created for successor of the Lombardi name. Additionally, he is incredibly controlling (not allowing Tia’s dad to marry her mum). Yet the manhwa places him as a good guy because he is good to Tia, only after she has proven herself to him. Quite literally the only person able to live up to his standards has basically had three lives, one in which she returns to the past, basically knowing the future. The family dynamics are to an extent basically fighting for his approval, in the most basic manner.
Additionally Tia going “I’m a Lombardi” is exactly like the Roy siblings do in Succession.
Overall I’m just annoyed at how the Grandpa is presented like a good guy.
This manhwa would have been so much more interesting if they explored the family dynamics in a more complex manner. (I basically want a succession style OI now).
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From my perspective, the Lombardi family is really similar to the Roys in Succession.
Lord Lormbardi (Grandpa) is just like Logan, creating unhealthy sibling and cousin rivalries amongst his children and grandchildren, consistently “testing” his kids with different business opportunities and responsibilities (the fabric business for example). He neglected and allowed Tia and her dad to be abused by the rest of the family because they were too weak, which was also heightened by the competition he created for successor of the Lombardi name. Additionally, he is incredibly controlling (not allowing Tia’s dad to marry her mum). Yet the manhwa places him as a good guy because he is good to Tia, only after she has proven herself to him. Quite literally the only person able to live up to his standards has basically had three lives, one in which she returns to the past, basically knowing the future. The family dynamics are to an extent basically fighting for his approval, in the most basic manner.
Additionally Tia going “I’m a Lombardi” is exactly like the Roy siblings do in Succession.
Overall I’m just annoyed at how the Grandpa is presented like a good guy.
This manhwa would have been so much more interesting if they explored the family dynamics in a more complex manner. (I basically want a succession style OI now).
2023.06.05 13:10 AutoModerator [Download Course] Cody Wittick & Taylor Lagace – The Influencer Marketing Blueprint (Genkicourses.site)
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